I like a girl but im not gay or bi

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I have a crush on the secretary at my doctor's office. I consider myself to be straight i have a boyfriend as well. Everytime i go to the doctor i always go and say hi and i joke around with her and stuff. I think it seems like flirting but im not sure. She's young still maybe like 26 or 27 yrs old. She's a really beautiful red head, i think most girls would be envious of her beauty but im always admiring her. Ive never liked a girl before and for the most part im pretty sure i love my boyfriend and im not bi, but she's just amazing.So is this normal?

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  • Risen_beauty
    13 years ago

    You're fine, relax. Sexuality is a spectrum. Barely anyone is 100% this or that. It's just a crush; enjoy it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You possibly could be reacting to a culture that extremely overexagerates the importance of women's body? if you are just appreciation it that should be fine but if your lusting that will be a huge problem in the future.

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  • jessicia16
    13 years ago

    i have the exact same crush on a russian girl at my school :) im not gay , i lust guys , mostly older one's but some girls catch my eye , and this girl in particular is a BIG crush of mine, she makes me crazy, it can be very frustrating coz i dont want to be labled some BS title.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    u adore her because of her terrific appearance and thats normal.

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  • iamre321
    6 years ago

    I think girls crushing on girls is much more common then guys crushing on guys, you should consider exploring those feelings with her.

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  • Lolly_pop
    13 years ago

    Sexual orientation refers to people you're sexually attracted to.

    So if you're sexually attracted to this girl, you are not straight.

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    • MartaC
      13 years ago

      yeah im probably not straight haha

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  • chome
    13 years ago

    Why not you know if theres no sexual feeling of wanting to actually have sex it's just admiration in the end

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