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I've known her for over a year. She's very beautiful, funny,cool and super nice/supportive to me. I never have sexual dreams about guys, only girls. But I'm pretty sure I'm not a lesbian bc I only ever get shy in front of guys. What does that mean?Am I just Bi? She just keeps popping up in my dreams every day and just wondering if others went through this.
It makes sense if you see this person every day and associate several activities with this person that your brain would naturally include her in your dreams.
For me I find that a specific person in my dreams is really only fulfilling a role, like an actress playing a part.
I still even at my age (over 50) have dreams now and then from way back when a buddy and i experimented a little. I think our dreams do honestly feed us bits of our deep desires. How we act or react to them can be a whole different story.
And so what if you are attracted to her. Nothing quite as beautiful as 2 women together sexually or not. Big issue is so many people feel its their place to pass judgement on others even if their lives do not cross each other. Do what you feel you need or want. Just tell her you might be attracted to her since shes been in your erotic dreams.
I love your response the most,thank you. That's quite true, about people being obsessed with others sexual orientation when they dont need to be. I'm just surrounded by so much judgemental/ religious people (like family) that I cant help but be paranoid of possibly diverting from the norm. She sadly left to college already (she was a bit older),I wish I took tht chance. However, Thanks for your wise advice ^◇^
I think it’s possible to be attracted to or love anybody, regardless of gender.