I have had sexual daydreams/fantasies about all of my friends
I don't want to date any of them, but I know some of their kinks match mine very well, and sometimes I imagine it and it turns me on. I'm not in love with them though.
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I don't want to date any of them, but I know some of their kinks match mine very well, and sometimes I imagine it and it turns me on. I'm not in love with them though.
Fantasies about kinky sex are normal, I have told my wife about my kinky fantasies but she is a bit reluctant to divulge all of hers. A few years ago I had a request for some private advice from the wife of friends of mine. Her husband was not responding to her in the bedroom so she wanted to talk with a male friend. After we talked about her favourite sex kinks I realised that they were very similar to mine. I gave her my advice and that was all.
I used to have this with some of my friends but not ALL of them. Same as I had fantasies about teachers at school and stuff like that.
Personally I would say it was nothing to worry about and a lot of people have fantasies but just don't get to thinking these people are somehow in on it.