I have a crush on the guy i hate

Three years ago a new guy came in to my school. We have most classes together now. Well the thing is, he's annoying as fuck. He's always up in everyone's business and he hates me. He's always saying something about my height (i'm kinda short), my clothes ("oh wow, you're wearing jeans today, haven't seen you in jeans since last tuesday" in the middle of math class), the fact that i'm the only child and claimes that i'm spoiled (even though i get everything from flea markets and he gets a new pair of shoes from his parents every week), the fact that i'm alive, breathing, living.... And when he's being annoying, i'll be annoying back... But damn i have the biggest crush on him. He's always hanging out with a bunch of girls who have committed their lives to laughing at his jokes and clinging to him. I mean he can be nice too... And i'm pretty sure he's a good person, i just freak out whenever he says anything to me and i just end up insulting him or something. And we're going to different schools after summer (maybe, he doesn't know where he's going yet) and there's no way i'll even be able to talk to him during summer, i'm like the most socially anxious introvert to exist on the planet... I just need some help with something, anything, please it's been three years and i have no idea why i like him so much

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  • He sounds like a guy to stay away from. He sounds narcissistic. Like he loves himself more than anyone and loves picking on others to boost his pathetic ego.

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  • He sounds like a narcissistic prick. And this is coming from someone who probably has a narcissistic personality disorder.

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  • You would be better off reading romance novels, the really trashy ones.

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  • You just had a lovely bowl of oatmeal, and soon I will be launching some turds that have more character and personality than this guy. Forget asbout him, he is an asshole.

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  • I was in that same situation both in 7th and 9th grade. I was obsessed with guys who would tease me because it made me feel wanted and like we had a connection. I read so many of those stories where it started off that way and become something more, so I was obsessed. But on the other hand I would also feel insecure about myself. They would always switch between insulting and complimenting and I didn’t know how to feel. Yes it is definitely normally but I would it’s definitely be careful around guys like that

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  • You are numb. His douchebaggery makes you feel. You like to feel, not what he says or him. Maybe if he is at all good looking it feels like you might truly like him, but probably not. On the other side, his ways are probably just the way he communicates

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  • hatefuck the guy then:p

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  • I think he likes you. Maybe the only way he can get a reaction out of you is by picking on you. I'll bet he likes you over the other girls because they fawn all over him while you remain your own person and voice your displeasure over some of the things he does. He will miss you when you go to other schools. Guys can be funny like that.

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