I hate my boyfriends son and i think he has a mental illness
Okay, before you pass judgement here, I do have children. I have a 6 year old and I’m currently pregnant. I know kids can be loud and rowdy if you don’t get a handle on it at a young age but I’m just fed the fuck up with my boyfriends kid. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and we are expecting a child together. My son lives with us full time and he is a very well behaved child because I don’t tolerate the bullshit. Granted he is a kid and likes to push my buttons but otherwise he’s a great child. However my bfs child is a nightmare. The is the most disrespectful, spiteful, attention hungry, spawn of Satan I have ever met. He talks to me however he pleases, because he doesn’t ever listen to me or his dad. He says hateful things like “that’s what you get” if you get hurt or almost fall, he says “it doesn’t matter” every time I get onto him about something. He’s a spoiled little brat and thinks everything he touches is his. He clearly has some form of autism or mental illness because he repeats entire conversations from days/weeks/months ago, or he repeats a sentence over and over but lingers on a specific word and repeats it. He’s very loud and obnoxious and it really works my nerves. I’ve tried bringing up that something is wrong with his son but he makes excuses cause his baby momma is an imbicile and refuses to accept that something is wrong. And honestly I think that’s child abuse to not take your kid to see a specialist when something is clearly going on. Also he’s so disrespectful cause that’s how my bfs sons mother talks to him. In the beginning I tried to be step mom but at this point I’m so annoyed by his kid that I ignore him when he’s at my house or I try to stay in a different room till he goes to bed. Oh also, he chews all the hands off his toys and my sons toys! Which is very infuriating. I try not to just ride his ass when he’s around but god it seems like the kid has no clue how to act right. I know something has got to give seeing as we’re moving to another town and having a child with my BF. I’m hoping seeing his kid less will help, since he’s here every Tuesday and every weekend. I know this all sounds crazy but I’m losing my mind and know I’m probably going to hell for how much I dislike his kid. What do I do?!