I get offended when people don't treat me as i would like

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When people don't believe what I'm telling them or don't treat me the way I want to be treated I get super pissed and offended. The worst thing you can say to me is "if I do it for you, I have to do it for everyone else". That is bullshit. I was told this once when I asked for extra time on college homework. I already had accommodations via the office of disability services but they apparently didn't include homework. I didn't want to stay up to 3am doing homework because I needed to sleep so I could drive to class the next day. I have a learning disability and various anxiety disorders. The instructor could have easily given me more time without anyone else knowing.

I also hate those "verify you're human" things. They are so hard when you have to click a picture and are a pain in the ass when asked repeatedly. As a general rule, I get very offended when people don't believe me. I don't think I would be able to interact with the police if I was on the receiving end. I've never had to, but if they didn't believe me, I would probably curse them and treat them as subhuman, just like they would be doing to me by not believing me.

I believe that I deserve an easier life and better treatment because I was born with various disorders. I have: nonverbal learning disorder, generalized anxiety, social anxiety, and most importantly OCD. I hate how the world is money oriented. I shouldn't have to be rich to afford what I want. Scam artists and people who run away with money deserve a very special and the absolute worst place in hell. I feel like I'm not always being treated fairly.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago | pl

    You are not even normal you entitled brat.

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  • LloydAsher
    3 years ago

    Whine, whine, whine.

    Being treated "fairly" isnt what you think it is. Everyone plays within the same standard, for the accommodations they give you extra time on exams and tests due to your differently abled ability. Most people dont get afforded this privilege. Thus you are already being treated differently from the normal students.

    Ok so it takes longer for you to do homework. So? Make a better schedule to account for extra time needed to do the homework. So does people with full time jobs or children. Not having enough time to complete homework is your problem not the college or universities problem.

    Verify you are human is to make sure the site doesnt get swamped by robots... as much. It's not targeting you. Thinking that every inconvenience is targeted at you must be exhausting. You are just being an entitled asshat.

    I'm in the same situation. I'm doing online college, something I've known that I'm not good at vs in person. I'm dyslexic so those captcha questions are a bitch for me but I understand their need. I'm pretty sure I got ADD, as well as general anxiety disorder.

    Do you see me bitch and moan about it? No. Why? Because everyone has to swallow their own little tragedies. You arent special, no one inherently is.

    We are a money driven society. Dont like it? Move somewhere else. If you cant move and are stuck here suck it up. Capitalism is the closest to "fair" humanity has come up with that hasnt lead to mass death. Money is just a tool of agreed work=value medium. More important the job/more niche = more valuable/incentive to pay more.

    Pull yourself up and get back into the real world so you can make progress in real life. Complaining about it wont change shit.

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    • BleedingPain
      3 years ago

      I used to get time and 1/2 for all standardized and classroom tests from 4th grade all the way through collage. That was my saving grace. If I was able to finish a test within the normal paramaters, it usually meant that I didnt actually know the material and I didnt want to sit there for eons. Especially during the ISATS.... That being said, if I used the whole time and 1/2, i usually got A’s or at least a high B.

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  • megadriver
    3 years ago

    Cry me a river... If you want success, you gotta EARN it!
    Some people were lucky to have been born in rich families, but most of us aren't. You can either bitch about it, or do something about it and improve your life.

    Rules are rules and they are for everyone. So because you have a learning disability and have trouble learning, you should get a pass.
    I had a part time job in university, I had literally zero time to relax. My days were get up, go to uni, study, go home to get changed, go to work, go home, sleep, rinse and repeat... Should I get a pass too?
    Should my best friend get a pass, who gets drunk every night to numb the pain from a very bad breakup?

    No! Neither of us should get a pass, cause if we start making loads of exceptions, it's like the rule never existed.

    Also be happy and thankful modern captchas rarely pop up and they are simple pictures you click on, instead of the HORRIBLE first generation ones where you had to perfectly type in the rubbish ink blob it showed you.

    As for the world being money oriented and you not working, but wanting to afford shit - You're living in a fantasy dude...

    What do you want? Everyone else to pay for your stuff? Be welfare scum?
    Is communism what you seek? Fine, go to Russia, or North korea, I'm sure you'll be treated like royalty there...

    I bust my ass off to get to where I'm at now. The only reason I make more money and can now buy shit I like is because I put a lot of work in! I don't bitch about how hard it was, I'm proud of what I accomplished and it's only natural for my work to pay dividends.

    As for good scammers, well done. If you're stupid enough to hand over your bank details to a "Nigerian prince" who promised you millions, or invest in bitcoin through a sketchy website - only you are to blame!
    And if said scammers scam big businesses, banks and insurance companies - full on applause!

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      Oh I fucking hate those old captcha locks. Dyslexia makes the "simple" text look like it was a burned newspaper with ketchup smudges on it. Ps and Fs look similar even when you dont have to read it through neon plaid weave.

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  • Clunk42
    3 years ago

    You are acting incredibly entitled. Why would you even expect people to treat you the way you want to be treated? That's not even "the golden rule". You're supposed to treat others the way you want to be treated, which seems to be a concept you have a problem with based on what you said about police.

    If the office of disability doesn't include homework, then it doesn't include homework. That is the end of that story. They don't feel as if you deserve any more time to do homework than anyone else, and you don't. Colleges are supposed to treat their students equally, so, yes, the teacher would have to give everyone more time.

    No one likes ReCaptcha. Everyone knows that. Don't whine about it, though, since everyone has to deal with the security measures that are put onto the websites that people use. The police wouldn't be "treating you as sub-human." You know what they would be doing, though? They would be doing their jobs. The police are not paid to trust or distrust you; they are simply paid to ensure the law is followed. You'd not treat them the way you would want them to treat you, but you expect them to treat you the way you would want them to? That's an egregious example of "stooping to their level."

    You do not deserve anything, because, just like every other human, you are likely a sinful jerk who deserves to go to Hell. Be glad for what you have. What do you suggest, instead of a money-centered society? Do you think we should go back to the barter system, so there is no money, or are you one of the morons who thinks that socialism or communism are good for anybody?

    It wouldn't surprise me if they don't deserve to go to Hell any more than you do, with all your whinging. You're being treated just like everyone else is, and just like everyone else, you're being treated fairly.

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      Life is fundamentally unfair. We all have our little tragedies.

      The only thing people are truely entitled to are their opinions and their life (natural rights). Water, food and shelter are not included.

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      • Clunk42
        3 years ago

        You're not even actually entitled to your life, as that can be taken away from you at any point by pretty much anything. In the wild, just as you're not guaranteed water, food, or shelter, you're not guaranteed survival.

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        • LloydAsher
          3 years ago

          Yeah the life part isnt really guaranteed. That's what freedom is at the end of the day. The freedom to die in a gutter and the freedom to build your own luxury are from the same well of freedom.

          What I meant by right of life I mean you have the right to commit suicide. It's your life, do whatever you want as long as it doesnt fuck with someone else's freedoms

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    3 years ago

    So you want special treatment basically. You have a excuse so think you should be one to get extra time. Equality is a bitch dude. I have those issues with attention and shit to and that's why I didnt go to college because I already know I wont get special treatment. I wouldnt even have the nerve to ask.

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      You know I woulnt be doing as shitty in class if I was going to in person classes. My major requires us to handle physical documents, and pdfs are a scant replacement for it mainly because the documents we would be looking over are the size of coffee tables and I rather not have to scroll to see the size 3 font.

      Not bitching about college. It's fine. I'm bitching about the lockdowns. If I could do online education i would be going to a way better online school. Rather than this jury rigged website they had to cobble together.

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      • 1WeirdGuy
        3 years ago

        Yeah what sounds like a bitch. I hope they open up soon im so sick of this covid shit. If youre sickly or old you should be able to stay home but healthy ppl need to be able to live. Idk how long this is supposed to go on 10 years?

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        • LloydAsher
          3 years ago

          Your guess is as good as mine. Honestly I think it's going to take burning some of the politicians houses down in order for a large enough point of dissatisfaction to be made.

          Not saying I'm going to do it. Heck I would if my buisness was shuttered forever by edict.

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          • 1WeirdGuy
            3 years ago

            The only people I know that are in favor of the lockdowns are students and kids that live with their parents. Havent met one person with kids and assets that has to work and wants lockdowns.

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            • LloydAsher
              3 years ago

              Now they are just being retarded by advocating for double masks

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    • mouldiwarp
      3 years ago

      Equality IS allowing the disabled access to accommodations so they can reach the same achievements as easily as able bodied people; equal opportunity for success instead of intentionally holding another group back from being their best.

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      • 1WeirdGuy
        3 years ago

        Equal opportunity yes equal outcome no. You give them the opportunity like anyone else but if they cant hang the outcome wont be the same as someone who can.

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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    That’s why disabled people shouldn’t be at college, they can’t cope and then they piss and moan like it’s everyone else’s fault when they fail

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    • jcline459
      3 years ago

      Nah, people should be afforded the same opportunities. That doesn't mean you get unequal treatment. There's a difference - building a ramp for people in wheelchairs is reasonable, making everyone else feel bad for having legs is ridiculous.

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      The fuck?

      I agree the OP is being a bitch but a disability isnt a sign that the person wont make it through. I'm dyslexic, got to triple check my technical college homework. If you had a disability you would have ways to work around it. Just because it's hard doesnt mean it's impossible.

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  • jodi1955
    3 years ago

    one should treat others as they want to be treated, if your offensive then dont be surprise if others are offensive back.

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    I agree with a lot of the other posters.

    If you want to be treated special... then show people that you are actually special by overcoming your personal obstacles and achieving something great.

    However, be advised that people who do that only occasionally point out how life is unfair and they spend a far more of their time and effort achieving success.

    The very fact that you could write such a complaint as you did - tells me that you actually have the capabilities to become successful. I suggest that you start reading success books and literature. In your case it might be best to start with:

    "Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude" by: Napoleon Hill and W. Clement Stone.

    Also "The Magic Of Thinking Big" by: David J Schwartz may also be of help.

    There are dozens of other books as well. Those 2 contain the foundational principles that most other and more modern books are based on.

    Achievers and Leaders are readers....

    I wish you well with this...

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      I'm not the OP but I share the OPs supposed disabilities plus dyslexia, and a learning disability. Personally I dont have any problem with taking tests (once I got a red bull in me) I do have a problem with procrastination but the important part of my exsistance is being completly honest about my circumstances. As well as I dont complain about where I end up.

      Being a victim doesnt solve anything.

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      • olderdude-xx
        3 years ago

        I was dyslexic too; and I'm not going to talk about my obvious disability when I was younger (which was overcome by lots of long term training).

        The school system did not even want to educate me. They took one look at me (and my issues) and just wanted to put me into the "special" school group that met in a house on 9th street that they considered uneducatable. Those students were largely "Mainstreamed" when I was in High School due to changes in federal laws - and most of them could not read at all (that could have been me).

        My mother lowered heaven a lot in the School Administration Offices until the conceded to allow me into grade school. Years later when the State passed a law that the Schools had to provide special education services to children with my disability... My mom was in the School District Offices the very next morning demanding that they hire someone immediately to work with me.

        You are correct, being a victim does not solve anything. Only by working on improving yourself do you get ahead...

        I'm still working on improving myself,

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        • LloydAsher
          3 years ago

          My school system did put me into special education. According to their records I was the only student that was successfully was able to "graduate" out since I scored higher than even normal students.

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  • Sanara
    3 years ago

    The first point you make is fully understandable. Especially with a disability but teachers either way shouldn't give so much homework it goes on behalf on sleep to get them done. And in that case, prioritize sleep instead, time is up when you should go to bed (maybe unless the day before an exam). The best would probably be if they banned homework all together, students/pupils spend all day learning at school regardless and that's where you have teachers that can guide you. It needs to be balanced with free time for recovery

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    Yes I hate people too and mostly everything they do and you have to do for them

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      That's how a society works though. Go live in the woods with nothing and see how far a single person can last by themselves.

      People dont really know how much work goes into everything we use everyday. The process to make bannanas less than a dollar a pound despite being grown in a tropical environment, transported thousands of miles to your local store is a testament to how amazing society and civilization is.

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