I find sex boring
Seriously I find sex boring. I spend so long looking after my partner during it I can't get myself off once I'm done with them.
I just have never had the feeling anyone that I have been with cares anywhere near the same for my enjoyment that I do for theirs.
So to reiterate I find that sex is a long and difficult, repetitive task that I honestly feel I'm good at but really don't enjoy. Is this normal?