I Feel Disgusted When I Look at Asian Men

I feel awful for saying this and I know there will be many angry replies to this statment. But I am honestly writing this out to seek your advice and honest thoughts. Since childhood, I've always felt that Asians are an extremely ugly race. I, myself, am Chinese, and I see myself as ugly too. My parents are always telling me that I should be dating Chinese men, but they are so unattractive to me. I tried to run down what I didn't like about them - their skinny hairless bodies (very effeminate looking), slanty shifty eyes, flat big button noses, a lot of them carry man purses, and they usually come with bad teeth or bad breath (due to either poor hygiene or something in the smell of their food). I feel the same way with Asian women too, but Asian men just look more terrible to me. This has always bothered me that I could be racist to my own culture and nationality, and that's the last thing I want to be. Is it normal to feel extremely disgusted and unattracted to all Asians, especially the Chinese? Is it normal to feel repulsed by how a whole race looks? I can't change the entire nation of China to look differnt, or to force them to learn to pick up better hygiene, so what I can do to stop feeling disgusted and disturbed everytime I see a Chinese or Asian man or woman?

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  • Learn that everyone is beautiful in their own way, even you.

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    • To be honest I think asian men are really ugly, I kinda agree with this lady. Im not racist but it's true they look like pancakes when I see them or hotdog.

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      • lmao u cant just say im not racist and expect that all your racist comments following are justified. "Im not racist but ya know all chinese people look alike, all chinese people eat dog, all chinese people know math, all chinese people cant drive... but ya know IM NOT RACIST :D "

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      • I am a Chinese, after I read this article and the comments. I want to say something, as an Asian, you feel self-abased, even hate their own nation, I think I should maintain their own country. China is a very beautiful place, have five thousand years of history, profound culture, these are worthy of respect, China's rise, nearly 40 years of reform and opening-up, China's rapid development, to the world economy in the second place, no other country in the world has such a speed, as an Asian, you should be proud. And you are inferior to look, I think there is nothing, skin is black because we lived abundant sunshine, can better absorb ultraviolet light, so everything is but the evolution of the gene, the result of natural selection. For example, if you put a white in Africa, don't do protective measures, it comes easily to the skin cancer, while africans wouldn't. Ethnic discrimination about the American people, I really hate. Whether China again how bad, at least on the ethnic problems we common attitude towards other people with tolerance, may not understand, but at least respect. This is better than the United States, was signed in the declaration of liberation of black slaves in one hundred, ethnic discrimination is still widespread. Chinese literacy issues, the so-called three generations of a noble, you how many years into the developed countries, China developed many years, our quality, I believe the future will let everyone praised in the world.

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      • I find whites attractive before the age of 30 then there seems to be a profound change in apprearance. That is the caveat. Good til 30 usually. All the asians out there, look at your high school yr book and look at all those white you were crushing on 10-20 yrs ago. Usually, bald, fat and indistinguishable. Not all, ...... but Most. Not to be racist, but I really tried this and realized most of my peers in hs are ugly as f:!;: while most of the asians look 10x better. Go figure

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        • Are you kidding me? White males can age and still look good and dignified especially if they keep slim. Asian middle aged men just aren't to be looked at, not even one look.

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      • That kind of way you are talking makes it clear that you are racist man. Hitler had the same speech as you. I wonder if that person who has written this article is really chinese? If so, then she should be mentally sick to say that every chinese is like this. She should rather say that she belongs to a category of ugly and dirty chinese and should not take every chinese for granted. I don't know if you are white. But not every white people for example is handsome of beautiful and a know a bunch of whites who take shower only once every 2 weeks. I don't have anything against whites but I'm just giving an example that there are ugly and dirty people everywhere

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      • Probably because you haven't seen any good looking ones yet, good looking Asian men are really rare.

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      • @: Joseph2211
        I married a woman who has an adopted Chinese daughter. This one does not act like a typical Chinese person. Normally Chinese people are polite, meek, quiet and mostly caring people, however this Chinese girl is the OPPOSITE! She is LOUD, DISRESPECTFUL, MANULIPTIVE, CONTROLLING AND VERY SELF- SERVING. I have to live with her EVERYDAY because my wife had already adopted her before we met. Honestly, can't stand her! She looks like a male ( if she did not have long hair, you wouldn't know she is a female! She has no feminine qualities at all! I sometimes wonder who would date her when she gets older! I do not want her living with me any longer than she has to, but how can I get her married off so she will go away and get out of our house? There are really no Chinese men around, and most white males would never find her attractive (unless she learns to be more femine, meek, quiet and not so awfully disrespectful. She thinks the earth revolves her! The only mate that would be suitable for her would be a black man! She has a much better chance of a black man being interested in her than she does a Chinese or white man! The only small relief I get is the time that she goes to visit her other parent, and that is only for a few days on weekends.

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        • How she behaves is all on your parenting skills..they are smart..so teach her how to grow to be a respectful successful woman..not some quiet person. She is "your daughter" then act like a father and guide her..because she will respect you once she matures instead of seeing you as a pushover. You both decided to adopt her..so take the responsibility of being a good parent.

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        • Most Chinese girls do have very large round flat faces. Most of them also have very huge glowing foreheads! I know one Chinese girl that I really wish I could take here out for a complete make-over. First to hide that giant forehead, I would get her haircut to include bangs. I also think that Chinese girls really look cute with bangs and a short haircut. I wonder why Chinese girls never get perms? I would also take her somewhere to show how to apply makeup. Chinese girls do not have eyelids and that's why they don't wear makeup, but I think that there are ways to apply makeup to make your eyes look bigger and more American.

          I wish some Chinese girl will answer this question for me: WHY is it that Chinese girls really don't care about how they look? All of them look the same. They always wear their hair pulled way back into a braid or ponytail EXPOSING THAT GIANT FOREHEAD.
          Why do they never seem to want to try different haircuts or hair styles? None of them EVER wear makeup, so with the same hair and same plain face, it's no wonder why Americans think they all look the same. I understand why American boys are not interested in them.

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        • Why she must to get married? She can totally live the rest of her life by herself.

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        • It's in Asian's gene,most of their child is more likely to be very naughty

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      • I have to say,some think that Asian girl is kind of beautiful.How it make sense that most Asian man is ugly and unattractive while the girl can be beautiful and attractive? It's completely nonsense.

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    • THIS IS VERY NORMAL FELLINGS , AND VERY TRUE. BETTER TO LEARN TO SHOWER PROPERLY EVERY MORNING. AND BRUSH TEETH AFTER EVERY MEAL AND DRINK MOUTH WASH EVERY HOUR...........

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    • Chinese girl..... Don't feel bad about yourself. I am adopted and I am Chinese also. I have problems trying to fit in sometimes with the American girls and boys in my school because everytime I look in the mirror, I immediately notice my Chinese face. I feel normal usually......EXCEPT when I look in the mirror! My adoptive parents adopted me from an orphanage in China, but I still wonder what my Chinese parents look like and I wonder if they ever think about me. My adoptive parents tried to adopt a child from America, Russia, Australia and everywhere else they could think of so that their child would look more like themselves. They really wanted a white child, but the demand for white kids is so high, you must get on a waiting list for a few years and white kids are hard to get plus the orphanages charge $7,000 for each child whereas China gives baby girls away FREE and there is no waiting list because no one seems to want Chinese girls.. So don't feel too bad about yourself because I know exactly how it feels to be a Chinese girl in America. I am going to have problems when I go to my prom because no white boys are interested in me. I have plenty of white boys as friends, but none of them really want to be my date.

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    • Chinese girl:
      You should not feel bad because you are Chinese and that you do not find Asian/Chinese men attractive. It is normal. Most people find Chinese people unattractive but they will not admit to it. It's the same way with black people. Most whites find Africans unattractive so they choose not to date them, but they accept them as friends and treat them as equials. Be grateful that you are not a black female. There are a lot of Chinese girls and women who do wind up dating black men, though and a lot of it has to do with the fact that there are not many choices for Chinese girls because the Chinese orphanages usually do not give out their males, so there are less male Chinese people in America. Black men have no problem dating Chinese women because they know that most white men would never date a black woman or a Chinese woman. Chinese women and black women are in a category of their own, being the ugliest of all races. That being said, you may have a possibility to date a white man if you are a subservient girl. If you are submissive and polite and soft spoken, that would make your beauty come from the inside outward. It's not all about how you look, but more about who you are on the inside.

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      • Fat pig say what ,go to get some sunlight cover ur pink skin.and lose some weight thx

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      • I am a black male, and I have found that all races of women find not only myself but other black males extremely attractive. White women travel accross the globe to be with us. Their men (white) even seek us out to sleep with their women which I find to be strange. However you indicating that she may be passed on to us so as to save her from singledom. Yeah right do not fool yourself.

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      • I'm a Chinese girl and I find that most races of men find us attractive. Chinese men seem to be unanimously agreed to be the most unattractive of all.

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        • Sure you are a Chinese girl.

          You sound like your typical white guy pretending to be something else, probably got cucked by an Asian guy, to lie on the internet.

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    • True most women are beuutoful but black women and Chinese women have it the hardest because society bases all looks on European/white beauty standards and those are hard to measure up to if you are black or Chinese

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  • Wow! What a stereotype. Out of everything you described, only two describe me; slanted eyes and having very little body hair.

    You must hang out with some people with poor hygiene. Oh, and by the way-- 95% of the traits you describe can be applied to people of any race, not just asians. So, I find your description sorely lacking.

    Please get out more, broaden your way of thinking, and mature a little. Your bitter diatribe against asians is sickening and I only hope you get over your internal problems and learn to love yourself. Obviously your rant is not about others, but a true reflection of an internal struggle.

    Good luck.

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  • Not meee. I love Asian men..they're so hot.

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  • Everyones different. Personally I find asians to be one of the most attrative races. Im not asian myself, but If someone said they found my race to be ugly, I would probably be abit upset about it but then again its something you can't change, its just how you are.

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  • Unfortunately this is the sad result of a minority growing up in a white society, immersed with white ideals, without proper parenting and/or her race's community to aid and guide her in taking pride of her own identity, culture and specifically, self-image. As such anything that does not conform to "white features" is wrong, rather than taking the normal stance that whatever is your race is right...

    The even greater irony is that many asian women consider themselves attractive - listing said features exclusive to the race - then continue to bitch about her men being ugly - listing the same features that she considered attractive to herself....

    I'm sensing confusion here - either that or an agenda to appeal to white men to create whiter children by marketing such features as exotic and thus, attractive to them - whilst conversely denigrating the same features of asian men so they do not reproduce. Essentially, asian women preach white superiority, and want to be assimilated into the white race.

    Bearing in mind that there was a time when black men were considered unattractive... not only that, but the very thought of a black with a white disgusted general society.... "how could a human breed with an ape?" were questions that weren't unheard of back then. Of course nowadays that sort of language is not only socially unacceptable, but black men are put in such a positive light with media and general society, that they are deemed attractive. Despite having those same "disgusting" features that repelled the general white populace just a few decades ago.

    Indeed if you go to parts of Eastern Europe, Russia and the Far East (ironically), this attitude still exists. Yet the same black men that are referred to as repulsive are seen as desirable in Western Europe and America.

    Of course the crucial difference here is that black women, even at a time when their men were considered unattractive, stuck by them. They still do, if you consider the high number of black women who will date ONLY black men....compared to asian women who will date anyone BUT asian men.

    Like I said, it is a shame that asian women have been brainwashed from birth to idolise white beauty and not concentrate on her own, much like other minority communities in white countries have done.

    And I leave you all, but more specifically asian women who think like the original poster, with a question - if asians are so repulsive, why do they still exist? If Asian men found asian women and her features repulsive, he wouldn't be able to get it up and thus reproduce.... similarly with asian women, she wouldn't be able to even approach asian men without feeling disgusted, let alone live with them and raise families with them. Yet here we are, with a quarter of the world's population being Chinese alone, and that's before we include the other Asians.

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    • Black women (all beautiful) date and want to date black man. Latino women want and date Latino man. White women want and date white men. And only the Asians are gong out o their way to try and get anyone who is not Asian. I don't think they belong to our human race. They are just ugly alien mutants, programmed to take over the Earth.

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      • no race mixing keeps the peace and balance on earth. i'm a white girl and I'm only attracted to white man I will never think about have a black or asian boyfriend! the culture and behaviour are far to different from whites and i also find less attractive. I have a white boyfriend and i'm verry happy

        Ps i'm not racist (why am i even putting this here) today everything you say is racist ..

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      • You are just jealous that we can have any race we want.

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    • actually, most asian women would prefer a good looking asian dude over any non-asian guy. the ones who SAY they don't like asian dudes are usually just bitter because it was actually asian men who didn't like them; this is one of the reasons the asian women you see dating out of their race are not that good looking. it could go both ways; any asian man with good taste will tell you that most asian women are actually pretty ugly. notice how the hottest asian women tend to end up with their own men, even asian men who aren't that attractive themselves.

      oh and fyi, most non-black women in america and europe are not attracted to the average black man, so in regards to physical attraction, things aren't too much different from before.

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    • Most white people find black people unattractive but are too polite or scared by political correctness to say anything about it. The only white people who find them attractive are brainless teenage girls who have been abused and/or mindless women/men who are so starstruck by negro celebrities and are incapable of uttering a sentence without using a vulgarity or expletive.

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    • Asians are majority, not minority. There 3 billon of them or more in the world. You will not be able to see non-Asian people anywhere in the world in 50 years. It'll be like the scene from Blade Runner, where all the people you can rest your eye on will be artificially made cyborgs.

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      • She's talking about a specific place, not the world in general. Asians are the minority where I live, for example.

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    • Well said!!!

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  • You're crazy, Asian men are hands down, THE hottest to me. Japanese, Korean, Thai, Vietnamese and Chinese. I could have asian 3 times a day

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  • So surely you weren't born feeling this way. What happened in your past to lead into this feeling now? Resentments against your parents? Feeling like you didn't fit in at school because of your ethnicity? Perhaps your hatred for Asians is a reflection of something inside you or that happened to you that you haven't made peace with & processed. Therapy could help.

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  • I can understand where you're coming from. As a man, I can't stand to even look at 99% of asian women out there. Most are so poorly endowed, and many have faces that resemble those of fish or small reptiles. Not only that, but their personalities are equally reprehensible.

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    • Asians are ugly, that's the fact. The worst part is that they want to wipe out the rest of the races of the planet Earth by mixing with them desperately. They mostly succeed with lower grade non-Asian males and C -- marriage /committed relationship obsessed females, that cannot do better.

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    • Maybe it's the location you live in. I'm asian and I'm born hot as hell. Guess its all in the genes. All the men and women want me. I don't have slanted eyes nor flat nose etc. Just was lucky to be born beautiful inside and out.

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    • You must be black?

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    • I think Asians are disgusting. There's a reason we banned Asians from emigrating to the US in 1917: we didn't want this country overrun with such repulsive people. Sadly, this policy was reversed in 1965 and we are left with millions who have arrived since then that do not belong here. Stay in your overcrowded, undesirable countries and leave us the hell alone!

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  • I don't feel angry - just a bit sorry for you. I take it that you didn't grow up in China. Where do you think you've got your ideas of what is and isn't attractive?

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    • I don't mind Chinese people. I think they are ok. They don't bother me but I certainly would not want any kind of boyfriend/girlfriend situation. They are like little mice or rabbits, they're cute to look at but that's about it. I would never think of them like an attractive mate weather they are girls or boys. They are just not anything any real American would want to have anything other than a just friends" thing.

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    • I was adopted when I was very young and I am Chinese. I hate being raised in America with white parents and I hate going to school when all of my classmates are all white. When we have a class photo taken, among my group of classmates I stand out too much! You can easily pick me out because I am the only one there with squinty eyes.

      The boys in my class are always in love with the American girls and they never even look at me. I have been thinking about getting that new plastic surgery done where they fix squinty little Chinese eyes to make them look American and the results are astounding!

      I also think that I am ugly. I think I need to do something different with my hair because I think that will make me look a lot better because mostly ALL Chinese girls wear their hair the SAME way, pulled back in a pony tail always which draws too much attention to the eyes and forehead. That is one of the reasons I do not stand out in a crowd is because I look just like all the other Chinese girls because my hairstyle is the same as all other Chinese girls. American people always say that they cannot tell one Chinese from the other because they think we all look the same and I have to agree on that one. I think I will get my hair cut so I will have bangs, get the eye surgery and start wearing makeup. I can't wear makeup now because I still have Chinese eyes, and Chinese girls do not have any eyelids to put makeup on. What are your opinions? Do you think that we all look alike?

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    • You say that you think Asians are ugly and you also say that you think Chinese are uglier than Japanese, uglier than Korean, uglier than Vietnamese and I want to know how you can tell which is which? I look at them and I honestly can't tell what ones are Chinese and what ones are Japanese or Korean because they all look the same to me! Tell me which features are different and how can you tell them apart? What are all of the mongoloids anyway? Are there more other than the ones that I mentioned? I know of Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, but are there any more I am forgetting? I knew a Chinese boy and I told him that he was a mongoloid and he thought I was being mean or calling him a bad name because he did not know that all oriental/Asian people are mongoloids and the word mongoloid is actually the name of all their races. He had to look up the definition of mongoloid for himself before he realized that this is the actual term for them.

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    • I feel sorry for Asian girls because they pretty much only have two choices: either an Asian man or a black man. There are no other options for Chinese people in America. They either choose a black/African mate or another Asian, and since there are not many Asian men to choose from, you are kinda stuck with black men. I am sorry that white men do not find Asians/Chinese attractive, but it's not the looks that count as much as it is as what's on the inside, but since you are better looking than black women, you can get a black man pretty easily since even black men do not find black women attractive. In America, Chinese girls must compete with white women for a white man, and they will lose, but when Chinese women compete for black men, they will win because they are better than black women, just not better than white women

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      • So not true. I'm asian and all the men of all colors and woman want me. I must be a rare beauty haha.

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        • dude i make white girls thirsty

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        • I've seen from a Google search "Asian eye surgery" and there were a lot of Chinese and Korean women who have had eye surgery and the "before and after" photos are absolutely amazing! Now those goofy slanted eyes can be widened and opened and it changes their appearance drastically! It makes them look more American and not quite as ugly as they normally are. They have also used some of those Chinese women who have had their eyes fixed as models!

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          • I have often wondered why Asian women want to marry a white guy. You know the type of Asian, that wears the big oval sunglasses to cover up her squinty eyes. She is hoping that her white husband will have the money to pay for "the operation" so she can have normal looking eyes. She is also hoping that she will bear him a half white child, so he will have an average sized member, not like tiny, Asian men. This money grubber is hoping that her older white male husband will have money in his will so she can have breast implants to look like she actually has a pair and implants into her flat ass. No self respecting white male in his prime is going to marry an Asian. Only lonely older males at the final years of their lives resort to this trash.

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            • I agree

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            • Not all Asian women are ugly. I think the Japanese women are pretty and Korean women get their eyes fixed with surgery so a lot of them are pretty after surgery. The only asians that are really ugly are the Chinese. Chinese women and girls are typically ugly......unless, of course if they choose to get their eyes fixed to look more like Americans. A lot of Chinese girls are adopted by white couples as babies and they are cute as babies, but when they get older about age twelve and older they get very ugly and also because they typically hang out with white girls, a lot of them feel insecure because all of the boys are looking at their friends and not them. It's also because they are raised around white peoples of they are always being compared to white women.

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  • Seriously GO FIND REAL ISSUES! Every nationality has someone who is unattractive. Its all got to do with genetics. Anyways not all asians are unattractive, you need to get out more. I guess if you live in the Asian countries and not the multicultural countries, you will see the more authentic looking asians. Those asians in America, Britain or Australia tend to have some lookers. And YOU White people who think your so attractive and believe you are better looking than asians and think that asians are so ugly, should take a good look at themselves. I will refer to the inferior thinking people as vomit faces. And whoever finds you attractive are probably f-ing blind. And YOU the person who wrote this article, go get surgery if you think you're so ugly or get some self esteem and accept yourself as you are or just make something of yourself instead of focusing on the fact that you are ugly. Oh and it doesn't make you a racist unless you hate that particular race, so you can criticize a race but it doesn't make you a racist. In conclusion, some people are so limited in their thinking, it f-ing amazes me.

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  • While everyone has their own preferences, I can't help but to feel that there's another reason for way you're put of by Asians. The way you describe your feelings sounds like self-hate and perhaps, the result of living in a culture that looked/looks down on Asians.

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  • I know! I have never had my nose described as a big button. What an odd shaped button it would be. My nose is wide, but that is to be said of anyone with ancestry from a subtropical climate (like Vietnam).

    Shifty eyes?! Okay, slanted yes. But shifty? Shifting your eyes is an act, I don't know of anyone who shifts their eyes 24/7; so to say all asian men have shifty eyes would call for an entire race of people to be at the optical doctor for the majority of the week. I know if I have ever needed to make an eye appointment, it is usually fairly fast.

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  • To be honest it doesn't matter what race you are..
    Don't blame your ugliness on your ethnicity..
    There are plenty of good looking and pretty Asians..
    There are plenty of ugly White and Latin people as well..
    Sorry that I had to be so frank but that's life..

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  • I am a Chinese, after I read this article and the comments. What do I want to say: as an Asian, you feel self-abased, or even hate their own nation, I think I should maintain their own country. China is a very beautiful place, have five thousand years of history, profound culture, these are worthy of respect, China's rise, nearly 40 years of reform and opening-up, China's rapid development, to the world economy in the second place, no other country in the world has such a speed, as an Asian, you should be proud. And you are inferior to look, I think there is nothing, skin is black because we lived abundant sunshine, can better absorb ultraviolet light, so everything is but the evolution of the gene, the result of natural selection. For example, if you put a white in Africa, don't do protective measures, it comes easily to the skin cancer, while africans wouldn't. Ethnic discrimination about the American people, I really hate. Whether China again how bad, at least on the ethnic problems we common attitude towards other people with tolerance, may not understand, but at least respect. This is better than the United States, was signed in the declaration of liberation of black slaves in one hundred, ethnic discrimination is still widespread. Chinese literacy issues, the so-called three generations of a noble, you how many years into the developed countries, China developed many years, our quality, I believe the future will let everyone praised in the world.

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  • This is not normal whatsoever...
    I'm a half Asian-half American adolescent and I would argue that most women find me rather attractive. To suggest that the whole of a race is disgusting is disgraceful and outlandishly cruel.

    Being someone who has traveled around the world and many parts of Asia, I have gathered that, yes, everyone looks different. However, this does not mean that they are automatically ugly.

    Additionally, having family members in parts of Southeast Asia makes this question particularly offensive.

    You want advice? Learn to love yourself, and stop being afraid of who you are.

    Shame...

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  • You must think that because you haven't met me yet ;)
    Lmao jk. I'm an asian guy and not to be conceited or anything but to be with tons of women in bed, or just in general, definetely proves my breath doesn't smell like dog crap. I'm a good 8" :)
    I've been with black, white, mexican and even Asian women. None complained anything. Contrary; they wanted to be with me again. To be honest it really depends on the person. I wouldn't jump to conclusions and alienate from your own race or feel ashamed of it.

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  • I couldn't agree more to be honest I struggle to believe we are the same species, ugly is being generous, quite honestly I wish there was a different planet and you could go there and it's full ofAsians and then I would ahhh that makes sense I didn't think we were the same. The only thing worse are those useless white nerdy geeks that date them losers! I know deep down they know this as well otherwise why do they get their eyes fixed and dye their hair orange (blonde)

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  • Big button nose?

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  • Asian men are hot imho. I know these two are Japanese but Matsuyama Kenichi and Fujiwara Tatsuya are two amazing smexy examples of gorgeous Asian men.

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  • Listen to your parents and only date other Chinese . That would be fare to the humanity . Reptiloids are pairing up with another reptiloids instead of wiping out the humane race off the Earth.

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    • Fuck you you racist cunt, i'm asian and fucking shredded so i still get pussy from all races. So ya there is a special place in hell for cunts like you, FUCK YOU YOU RACIST CUNT GO FUCK YOURSELF

      BTW IM FUCKING MASSIVE so if we ever fought i would fuck you up brah,
      https://www.google.com/search?q=johnny+skywalker&es_sm=91&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0CAcQ_AUoAWoVChMInO6dvOX8xgIVgi-ICh0wGwsr&biw=1220&bih=621#tbm=isch&q=johnny+skywalker+bodybulder&imgrc=fSZOI1W73cC6fM%3A

      u mad BRAH? worthless cunt

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      • Ura badsss threatening a fuckin girl its u who sounds like a cunt in part Korean also so I'm Asian n I ain't all butt hurt.

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    • You do realize that you've been repeatedly posting these comments with the same theme on the same post over and over again? Are you trying to make people think you're more than one person, or...

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  • So don't fucking look you prick. Chinese people are okay people unlike you

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    • Lol, the poster is Chinese.

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    • "Chinese people are okay" Phaf they are greedy, selfish, cruel smelly and calling them ugly is just being darn right generous, weedy little pasty bodies, if I was a woman I would run a mile

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      • If you are white see what your ancestors did to the world....génocides, safaris, killing thousand of games, bisons, slavery. You have Alzheimer's disease?

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  • SELF HATRED ! Shouldn't be barbecuing a dog or a cat instead of bitching about how much you hate your kind

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  • im asian, and im super attactive to white girls, and half-asians/half white girls.

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  • I'm a white female..I never liked asian men the way I like asian women. I think many are beautiful. But now I have a Chinese boyfriend- and damn he is hot! I wonder... Ever been in England before? :')

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  • There's nothing wrong with you. We all have our own preferences. However it's not healthy for you to feel ugly as a Chinese woman. It can bring your self-esteem down. Just remember that the things you don't like about yourself could be the things that someone else really likes about you. One possible reason why you may feel like Chinese/Asians are unattractive in comparison to other races is media influence. Hollywood movies always select tall, Caucasian males as lead actors, and we rarely see Asian men being chosen for those roles. There is generally a lack of Asian presence in Western movies, music industry, athletics, etc. As far as real life, Asians only make a small percent of the population in the Western world so it's a bit unrealistic to use those examples as guideline. It may sound silly but I suggest watching some Asian dramas/Asian music videos. They might change your opinion of Asian attractiveness. I am personally a Caucasian with strong preference toward Asians. I find all the characteristics that you described as unattractive, very attractive- small hairless bodies - who wants a hairy naked beast; slanty shifty eyes - I loled at that one. Asians have some of the best eye-smiles because of their eyes. Look up asian eye smile in google image search. It's absolutely adowabee. Flat big button noses- I never really notice a nose on a person unless it's so huge it sticks out..I doubt most people do. I think Asian noses are fine for their facial features. Bad teeth/bad breath - that really depends from person to person. A lot of Europeans have really bad teeth too, so it's not really particular to Asian race. I know that this won't change your opinion of Asians but I hope that it can make you see that what one person finds ugly can be something that others find beautiful. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder! <3

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  • Hmmm. I don't think anyone who thinks all Asians are unattractive have met the right people. I know tons of Asian men that are healthy, muscly, well-mannered, good-hygiene, handsome, attractive voice, manly, tall, passionate, and loud. I hope everyone meets someone like this some time in their lives so they don't go about generalizing the whole race. :) cheers.

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  • To OP, you have a serious identity and self esteem issue. Perhaps you've subscribed to white media brainwashing as to standard of beauty. If you can't even love yourself how do you expect anyone to love you. So you're just gonna fall in love with the first white guy that has a thing for you?

    Before you decide all Asian men are what you just described perhaps you need to take a trip to asia or check out what's really out there like...http://www.buzzfeed.com/javiermoreno/gorgeous-asian-men-guaranteed-to-make-you-thirsty#.pw2gvvNynD

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  • Not all Asians are ugly. I think youre just generalizing, also depends where you live. Where I live, I think the Asians are extremely good looking, but if you want to see a good looking Chinese guy, search up Luhan.

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  • i think you are seriously generalizing the whole Asian population by saying everyone is ugly. it may be because the only Asians you happen to be exposed to are those types but really not all are like that. i am asian myself and was mostly attracted to western guys but after a while, i realized how good looking some asian guys look and now ONLY am attracted to other asians (then again not the type you may be describing though). like i bet you if you saw the likes of wu yifan, Ok Taecyeon, Wang Jackson, taeyang, choi siwon in person you would fall to your feet in awe of their sexiness and charm...
    i understand where you come from though as i have seen that type of asian too but there are still those that are EXTREMELY good looking like them.

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  • This feels like such a waste of time to even reply to these ignorant freaks... Sure, each and every person has the right to have their own preferences.. But to say every person of a certain race is ugly makes me so angry and loose faith in humanity. The majority of the population are Asians. Asians do not all look the same, they come in different shapes and sizes too. My boyfriend happens to be Korean and to be honest he's extremely sexy and knows how to take care of me in bed.. Asians are not all unsexy it totally depends on the person! Just don't spread this much hate it's so childish and selfish to push others down like that.. I am 17 and I think I know better than you pushing down on other people because of their appearance and cultural origins.. Just please leave this kinds of opinions to yourselves and spread happiness instead.. Life is already too short

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  • Everyone have diff ideal type :)

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  • It's ok. You can't help who you are attracted to or how you feel. It is surprising that you are repulsed by your OWN race, as most people are attracted to people who look like them, but so be it. I have to disagree with you about Asian women though. The young ones are almost always drop dead gorgeous. For some reason, their looks do tend to go downhill fast once they hit middle age though. Those short permed hairdos that married women often adopt don't help any really.

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  • To not like your own race is better than to love your race and taking pride in races and racism. It is still contributing to humanity and unity of mankind. But to be disgusted to the point of hating and deadly ill feel as you describe clearly is harmful to others who will find you toxic or to yourself. Seek therapy. But anyways, haters gonna hate.

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  • WAT asian men are some of the hottest men out there

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  • I am OK with her comment. Based on her comment, she must extremely hairy and fat.
    Most Asian guys do not like hairy girl. I think it works out well for her not liking Asian men because I doubt any Asian dude would like her. Her father must be one ugly Asian dude.

    OK my girlfriend is laughing.

    Good luck on your relationship. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

    I am Asian and I do not have have any problem picking up girls (White, Asian, or black). Since my girlfriend just left. It is safe for me to say this, I had dated ms Vietnamese (3rd place).

    As an Asian guy, I found it is easier for me to pickup girl then my white friends.

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      Btw, may I steal this: Miss of Vietnam, 3-rd place ??

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  • Its self hate.
    Your definetly insecure and need to learn to love yourself...or at least like some of you, because untill then....you'll never be satisfied with yourself.

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  • Don't worry so much what others think. In another 500 years we will all be one race. I am from a Navajo italian father and a Irish mother I look white and so do my siblings . I dated and married two white men. I wasn't honest with myself and let family pressure me. I am now married to the sexiest Japanese man in the world for 12 years. There is someone for everyone we evolve like every other species stop trying to be or conform to something g you are not. You will never learn to be your best or live your best life. Who cares why you are not attracted. Concern yourself with the type of man you are attracted to and focus on the qualities that are important to you and your family. Everything else will fall into place even your parents acceptance.

    We can't fight evolution god has a plan !

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    • Well I agree with everything you said, except I believe we will never get to be one race despite the constant connection with people of different background; even if we were all the same race today we would still develop differently in different locations due to adaptation and evolution, which can't be stopped.

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    • seems like god has a plan so everyone on Earth look like Kim Jong-Il . I hope I'll die before that happens.

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    • You are a fully mature person!

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  • i agree, asain men are not appealing. mostly skinny with bad hair. and wats with asains trying to go blonde? forget it already it shouldnt b done. they all look the same to me and hav small dicks. they hav no idea wat to do sexually.

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    • Just like blacks who dye their hair blonde... oh wait, that's not acceptable to say, is it?

      You say Asian men are not appealing to you, yet you also say they have small dicks and don't know what to do sexually. In order to make the last two statements true you must have slept with quite a lot of them.... but then why would you do that if they are not appealing?

      Or maybe you're just using the tried and tested white-made stereotyping that has hurt asians to further the white agenda of racial superiority and white standards of beauty.

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      • yes i was forced to hav sex with many asian men so i know wat im talking about.

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  • Some are good looking, but I get where you're coming from. It's rare that I see an Asian man and think to myself "damn, he's hot". Oddly enough I have been with enough Asian men to know that I don't want to do it again. A total turn off for me is an uncircumcised penis and most Asian guys are not cut and they're spunk is always funky. So yeah, I'll pass on any kind of romantic relationship with an Asian man. Strictly platonic.

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    • nor do I find any white female attractive, I mean, what's with the old looking face and the wrinkles and ugly feet? not to mention all the veins that should only show on old people? and the horrible personality and disloyalty that I can't even imagine to live with.
      P.S. this comment is dedicated to the one non-educated big mouth hater above, just saying, every race have those one or two bad examples, and just like you don't buy the rotten avacado, don't look to the bad example of a race to judge the whole race, grow some sense.

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    • I think that is it a total turn off when vaginas are uncircumcised. The flaps are just flapping around and besides it's too loose and also gross to look at. It' smells a bit funky around the flaps too. Woman should be circumcised at birth the same way as men, without any choice.

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    • I'm a really hot Asian guy, i make white girls at my college thirsty. They think I'm way hotter than white men.

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  • I have met other Chinese girls who feel this way too. Some of them were born and raised in China and claimed they could not date Chinese men. I am not Asian and i cannot really see the matter from their viewpoint but tbh i find it SAD.

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  • I am half chinese and half columbian, and while I feel somewhat the same, I like the way I look with only certain exceptions like anyone else, but if you ever saw my uncle (Who I am very envious of)you would think he's some sort of model or actor. With that said, I love white chicks, Boobs all the way!

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  • I'm only into white guys but I know sexy Japanese and Korean men when I see one :$

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  • Asians are hott

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  • Well, that's just not normal.

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  • Asian men have beautiful eyes and cutesy noses. given me an Asian man any day. Caucasian men are arrogant and sloppy.

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  • Don't listen to all the comments on here, although your discription of why you are not attracted to them is lacking. Everyone has that one thing that makes them tick and you can't help it. I do not believe you are racist towards your own race or discusted with them, I just believe that you are not attracted to them. I am the same way, I am totally white but HATE dating white guys. They do nothing for me and I am only attracted to a few. I mainly date African - American men because they are so attractive to me, I am not attracted to people of Asian decent either. So don't feel bad and just go after what your attracted to and try not to feel discusted by your own race, though it is hard sometimes.

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    • Not happy about this since I am asian, but I am fine with your attitude. Thank you miss for being polite about the matter and not discriminating, this is rare for the web these days, I can appreciate people like you.

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    • I sort of can understand you. I am only attracted to man my own race, which is white, but I do find African people attractive. Asians are ugly, hating themselves, obsessed with getting a non-Asian partner and producing perfectly ugly Asian offsprings, the only option when one of the parents is an Asian.

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    • I totally agree with you!

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  • I'm 1/8 Japanese and find all Asians unappealing not only how they look but how they walk (pick your feet up!) And their language...fingernails on chalkboard! I can't help but say 'yuck' when I pass by. I don't like asians and I'm okay with that.

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  • I don't think it's fair to judge all Chinese like that. I had a friend from China, (I know this post is about Chinese men, but my friend is female) she was so beautiful to me, even with her bad teeth and very slim figure. I had a crush on her in the year she went to school with me. Her personality and culture is what I enjoyed about her

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    • poor thing

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  • There are four distinguishable races: Asian, white, black and indian. Indian has an asian influence. However, of all the races the one that have had more civility through history is east asian.
    Mental illness and hate for the fellow man is abundant in the white and black race. Obesity, skin cancer, syphillis, breast cancer are abundant in these two races.
    White is a recessive gene and albino animals in nature are the exception, not the rule, white is not the best race genetically. If they are not ruling, their fragile mind accustomed to privileges, collapses and they lash out with violence, killing masses.
    Blacks have been bred to fail and hate each other, there is no hope for blacks either.

    White skin reflects light better and it looks well in photographs, but up close there are plenty of spots, small veins, dermatitis and in general very unhealthy appearance, in particular after 30 years of age.
    Black skin is better up close, but their chemically treated hair is a mess of odors and unsanitary, to say the least. In their efforts to look like other races they are looking worse than their ancestors. Soon they will show no signs of humanity. They are regressing looking more like animals, speaking and dressing like failures.

    There were great mathematicians and physicists who had breakthroughs, however you can’t trust history entirely…there were many women scientist who had to hide behind their husbands for their ideas to be recognized. Even whites males themselves, tried to suppress each other, like Edison and Tesla.

    Similarly, during the persian invasion and other invasions the origins of many signs of intelligence were destroyed. During the religious wars there was similar destruction of scientific thought. The superior race is east asian. Without doubt, in the absence of weapons, asians would win close contact combats against blacks and whites. Any race that reproduces with asians improves their genetic make-up a ten fold.

    East asians also are the only race who doesn’t use religion as a way to dominate, control and destroy.

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    • First off, I am not Asian but love Asian men. They are the BEST fathers! Second, this must have been written a while ago sinc sit is becoming more and more apparent that Asians have become the new gold standard of womanhood period. Sucks for the rest of us. Asian men will eventually achieve much higher status as well since they will acquire greater wealth and power and there will for a short time- be more women from other races since their own women choose them less-- for now. That will change as their power increases and they become more attractive because of it. However, in terms of comparing Asians to other races, they have not been tested in the same way as other races due to accident of geography. We don't really know how they would have fared if confronted with the same issues centuries ago. In terms of African Americans, please broaden your horizon and look around. There are plenty doing great things of their own volition and through their own intelligence. Just like comparing AsianAmericans to other Americans, it is a false comparison. They are not in the same category. But God Bless them all. It appears their time has come!

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      • Please, Asian countries faced all of the shits and lived. please point out one thing that happened in the rest of the world history that didn't happen in a way in Asia (christianity doesn't count, but seriously, why didn't god go to china, he'd get way more supporters way quicker)

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      • good for you if you're capable of aesthetically tolerating, or even liking Asians. Very practical of you. Just stick to them, don't attemp on getting anyone non-ugly ever. . You don not need anything better then them.

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    • "East asians also are the only race who doesn’t use religion as a way to dominate, control and destroy."

      I think that you need to read up on your history. In the last war, the Japanese were ran by a religious warrior cult that considered their emperor to be a god and considered themselves to be superior to all other people.

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    • please only date Asians and produce Kim Chen Ir looking babies with them. they'l love you for just being white.

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  • Yes you are normal. I am part Asian and find most Asian men, particularly Chinense men, unattractive. I think this aversion is nature's way of trying to broaden the gene pool. When attraction, i.e. desire to mate, is not present, that means that those genes are not desirable to the opposite sex. So, a Chinese woman who prefers a white man to a Chinese man is broadening her offspring's gene pool as well as helping her produce more attractive offspring, who will then have greater chances of reproductive success. It's not sad, it's nature. Look around and you'll see it's true. Racially mixed children are often much more attractive than non-mixed.

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        p.s. again, this is aimed at the a-hole above, just saying, you are just as disgusting in your own way, discrimination doesn't work when you are not any better.

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    • Oh yeah, because that explains all the white women wanting to be with asian men.

      Oh wait...

      The vast majority of men and women of all races want to be with their own. A partner that shares their culture, background and heritage. Tribalism has helped humans prosper for millenia.

      This does not prescribe to your "brodening the gene pool" theory.

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    • no that is not true. i am Asian and all half Asians and white girls think I'm hot even though I'm full Chinese.

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    • As there are many white women who marry black guys. So these women prefer black guys to white guys? To broader her offspring's gene pool and produce more attractive offsprings? You zre a stupid guy and the kind oh genes that you have should disappear!

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  • Ur totally normal.I think asian guys are disgusting.Even typing the word asian guys make me disgusted. The way they perceive women,they way they blablabla.... all disgusted me!! ewwwwwwww...Not to mention long fingernails! And they always have bad breath. Asian women are fine thoIm one of the asian women as long as they don't try to look white and are comfortable in their skin I like them. And I totally understand why white guys love asian girls. My boyfriend is black and whether it's a hook-up or a serious relationship I always end up blacks. I like white guys.Btw I'm kind of a country girl.
    I just like a manly man. I can smell that from a mile a way.No cologue will spell" manly" to me.I just use my radar! lol
    feel free to contact me:)

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    • The way they perceive women... rightio.

      One of the things I've noticed with asian women - they come across a few asian men with certain negative values, apparently all of them have it. They keep on meeting white men with yellow fever, however - nope, it's not the race, just gotta keep trying...

      It is a complete oxymoron that you loooove yourself (so much that your kids will look nothing like you! - how self deluded can you get) but not your male counterparts.

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      • any Asian woman's or mans's (I don't think there is a difference between the two) kids, unfortunately, will look like Kim Long-Jl, no matter who she / he will have them with.

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    • Pink skin pig china r very big and many different city's so north n south this city n that city they look very different.i have a small high nose n big eyes since I born and many north chinese do.not every chinese r flat like ur losers wife .its bad taste of us guys.

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    • the way they perceive women... pfff...
      which time period you from? pre-WWI? Don't talk like you know the subject if you don't know a crap about it.
      And the smelly issue, I don't understand and probably won't, since I have yet to come across a non-peasant-origin Asian that smells any worse than the white counterparts, might be even better given that white kids sweat all the time.

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    • You are a stupid woman!

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  • I am eurasian, and I personally agree that asian men are not my type. But that's just because I like taller, bigger, fairer guys for some reason. However, contrary to your statements, I think chinese and asian women are gorgeous--slim, petite, and fashionable. In fact, I am not bad looking myself. It must be the white in me, right?

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  • Agreed but Asian (Tokyo) girls can be pretty

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  • asian girls are so fucking hot!!!!!!! japanese laos girls korean!!!

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      • honestly, where did you see your asian stereotypes, pre-historical japanese paintings? does that mean i can assume European men all look like the Scream?

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    • agree ! Japanese, Northern Thai and Chinese for me !

      White women look nice too but why put up with the constant BS ?

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  • I think you probably live in a place where there are a lot of new Chinese immigrants from the poor rural parts of China - you just described most of them! It is unfortunate that most Chinese men are what you've described. However, there are also some decent looking ones - but these more rare decent looking ones are usually arrogant because of their above average look, doesn't matter they are Chinese or Koreans or Japanese. So I would say don't go for Asian men at all. If you really need to get married that much, marry a non Asian.

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      Just like I would say to white women, do not be with the pencil dicked white men, go with blacks, asians or latinos who can rock your world. Do not be swayed by the bullshit that white men spew, both in real life and on the internet.

      It's all just a big game of PR

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    • True, if an asian don't a) have a relative here or b) gets over for studys, then he is probably not too popular in his own country, so yeah...

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  • well i think caucasian race are the best. They can be lookin good without trying and the medias are making it even more realer

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  • I beg that you are a typical Chinese who grew up in a typical chinese family ,more or less impacted by communistic heathenism and monogolism , I feel that you are seriously lack of various tastes and have 0 ability to understand different cultures and don't get the different beauties , when u see different things u surely get yourself a heavy mental attack and you surely gonna choose to simply copy follow the trends because of your educational backgroud. Bref , a primitif person with brutally superficial mind set.... your don't even know what does beauty come from...you are born slave

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  • Maybe a counselor would help. I find the initial post really sad and depressing that someone would feel so poorly about herself and her people. I am Italian-American and I think Asian men and women are incredibly attractive. My boyfriend is Vietnamese and I am very happy. Do not listen to the white male dominated media. Just don't buy into that... wishing you peace.

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  • There may be reasons why you find Asian males unattractive:
    1) If you live in a country where Asian males are a minority, the physical features of the ethnicity that makes up the majority of the country will be what is considered desirable. For example, in the US, the whites are the majority so Caucasian features are considered the most popular attractive features.
    2) The media shows mostly men who are of the majority ethnicity. They show minority men much less. You learn through media that men from the majority ethnicity is considered attractive while Asian men are rarely if not never shown at all.
    3) People around you who are of the majority ethnicity also have been taught that the majority ethnicity features are the most attractive. They have been taught to find you and Asian men as unattractive and treat you like you are not attractive so you start to actually believe it.
    The poor hygiene can happen with men of all ethnicities. You may just only notice it in Chinese men because you already think so negatively of them in terms of their looks. It is normal in some cultures to only take showers once a week instead of daily like in the American culture. Some cultures do not use deoderant like they do in America.
    At the end of the day, you can still teach someone better hygiene. Also, we all age and get older looking and eventually with time, lose good looks. Good looks never last forever.
    Spending time with confident people of your ethnicity who do not find themselves nor Asian men unattractive can help you change your opinion because you can substitute their teaching for the negative teaching you may have gotten from the majority ethnicity you are constantly surrounded by.

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  • why is it that all the other races always want to mix with our white race. I know we white women are beautifull aswell as our man but still there are also women with other skin color that can be as beautifull. I sometimes feel like white people are superior race if you look at it. Guess everyone wants to have a piece of it ;p

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  • Asian dick is far too small, get a white guy, you'll thank me later!

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  • To the OP: it sucks to be born physically unattractive ..and when you get bullied for it..it's understandible that you'd blame yourself and your parents.. Beauty is on the inside..till u fix that it will never shine through and you will always be ugly. Love and respect your parents. Love yourself despite what other people say. Ever wonder why some rich men would marry an "ugly woman"? It's because of their qualities... pretty ones with no qualities depreciates in value through time so they are not valuable to keep. Learn to have good qualities. If you still hate how you look on the outside..then get cosmetic surgery if that will boost your self esteem. I never liked asian men myself bc they all reminded me of my dad (not ugly). But now I kinda can see myself dating one (depends on their personality and how successful they are in life) . I judge men by how well they treat me..how well they can take care of me, please me...respect me...not by their race. I believe maybe you are just surrounded by ugly people..and you need to travel or get out more to discover that there are gorgeous asian men out there with average size penis (8inch). Luckily I'm born beautiful for an asian..all the men and woman of all races want me.. I only chose a white husband bc he makes a good slave.

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  • White ppl like they color?no!they hate to be white they all want to be black,they like dark skin which look countryside n low,wtf.

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  • western peoples taste more and more low and cheap that I find ,50 years ago west stars r audrey hepburn and audrey hepburn,they r beautiful grace n elegance,but now the west film stars look wild half naked cheap countryside vulgar and nasty ,and u guys like ugly Lucy Liu ,no taste as all.omg!and westerns like low cheap sexy,but chinese don't .

    Now the westerns think beauty is a woman who half naked smoke make up cheap and look like hooker,omg.

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  • western peoples taste more and more low and cheap that I find ,50 years ago west stars r audrey hepburn and audrey hepburn,they r beautiful grace n elegance,but now the west film stars look wild half naked cheap countryside vulgar and nasty ,and u guys like ugly Lucy Liu ,no taste as all.omg!and westerns like low cheap sexy,but chinese don't .

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  • I'm a chinese I don't like pink white it's gross but I like my pearl white skin,just hope foreigner losers don't tell me:honey if ur sink is black even look better.thats gross.

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  • Listen u pink skin blue green blind eyes jokers ,watch some chinese tv show ,learn about the world,knows not all Asia look like ur guys film star n wife,(gross)not every chinese look like Lucy Liu there r many beautiful chinese girls in the world.
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  • I don't care if u pink skin monkeys don't like chinese lady's but please don't call Lucy Liu or any ugly Asia woman Asia beauty shame on u,loser.thats gross.

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  • A true story:a friend of my brother.she is most of ugly girl in they class,they sometimes joke about her face.and they said no one would marry her,but guess what?after grow up she is more n more ugly,face more n more big skin more and more black ,nose more n more flat ,she look like kicked by donkey,then she married a us man!he said she is most beautiful girl in Asia,wtf......

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  • Foreigners r mental deviation or aberration,who think ugly woman r beautiful,or u guys mean to do this,found most ugly Asia made them film star then said this is Asia beautiful,then said all chinese look like that?
    Gross.

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    Listen u pink skin black blind eyes jokers ,watch some chinese tv show ,learn about the world,knows not all Asia look like ur guys film star n wife,(gross)not every chinese look like Lucy Liu there r many beautiful chinese girls in the world

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  • Listen u pink skin black blind eyes jokers ,watch some chinese tv show ,learn about the world,knows not all Asia look like ur guys film star n wife,(gross)not every chinese look like Lucy Liu there r many beautiful chinese girls in the world.

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    and I think western taste r countryside n farmer,and crazy,what's wrong with white skin?is that because of u guys r pink white which look like lobster,so u guys hates white skin.honest,I have nice soft while skin but many times foreigners told me :u should get some sunlight !

    Why would I want to change my white skin?why would I want to be a farmer?im not pink white,and I like my skin color.its like pearl.do I want to look as black as some foreigner losers who want to Chang they pink skin?no!

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  • and I think western taste r countryside n farmer,and crazy,what's wrong with white skin?is that because of u guys r pink white which look like lobster,so u guys hates white skin.honest,I have nice soft while skin but many times foreigners told me :u should get some sunlight !

    Why would I want to change my white skin?why would I want to be a farmer?im not pink white,and I like my skin color.its like pearl.do I want to look as black as some foreigner losers who want to Chang they pink skin?no!

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  • We look down on foreigners taste,u guys need to see the doctor really!

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  • Chinese we think foreigners only like ugly woman and we make joke about that all the time,in china if we said a girl is ugly only need to tell her ur the foreigner's type ,and if we said to a girl u look like Lucy or lvyan,that means she is ugly.

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  • We don't like Slit eyes in china china have many beautiful big eyes girls,but foreigner losers like Slit eyes call that Asia beauty so what we can do with nuts n crazy ppl?none of chinese think Lucy Liu her face is pretty ,only u foreigners.

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  • I also saw some foreigner losers married queen ugly woman which look like apes form Laos tan or japan,but most of Asia not that ugly,it's the taste ....my Laos friends said foreigners took most ugly short woman form Laos as well,and married.they r laughing .

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  • I think u foreigner blind guys like ugly n Lucy Liu type.but we think they r ugly,they r 1/300 ugly,in 300 chinese only one look like that.the truth is some north chinese girls look as pretty as French .but of course u losers don't like.

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  • So where is the beautiful chinese ladys they r in china and u can see them in china tv show.and where is most fugly chinese woman,u can see them in us film or tv show,or they r married west man !in china we like girls look like a girl who is slim and white skin(not that kind of pink while),but foreigners like girls who have black skin and strong big bone,which look countryside and low.and we prefer girls who have a small decent nose,but I find most of foreigners if they gf r Asia,they normally have a big flat nose.taste different what u guys think beautiful we think fking ugly!i have seem most ugly woman in the world few times they look so scarring and they all married foreigners,and they loser husband call them Asia beauty,shame on u.

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  • Excuse me.is that not most ugly woman work as model and film star in West Country?,is that not foreigner losers only like ugly woman?i saw most of foreigners some even famous they married most fugly woman in Asia ,so chinese man said foreigners come to help us to take most ugly woman away.china have lots beautiful girls who have small face big eyes small but not flat nose,and slim elegant,but foreigners only love ugly strong black skin woman who look like flat fish or monkeys and make them stats n models there.lucy Liu is very ugly for chinese we don't think she is pretty at all in china,and most of chinese woman not look like that.and she is a star in USA .but if u watch a china tv show no one have face like that.honsetly,we were thought u guys love ugly,and we always doubt u guys r blind or phycho.have something wrong with ur mind.foreigners have abnormal taste and weird thought! Honest I look a bit like Sophie Marceau,but foreigners don't like beautiful chinese they like girls who have small eyes big face n flat nose,they call that Asia beautiful,wtf.I think u guys r phycho anyway,please go to see a doctor.its not chinese r ugly,is most of ugly Asia ppl married foreigners or work as film stars in west country because of ur guys r blind low taste n crazy!

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  • You should be content with what you are and not find your own race repulsive. People cannot help the way that they were born. No Asians hated the way thay looked until the 20th century. Feeling this way is not normal and will be a handicap in your life if you don't resolve it. You should go and see a therapist who will overcome this problem that you have.

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  • It saddens me to death to see the sheer volume of people who are drowning in their own selfish thoughts and opinions without thinking outside the box. Ignorance has become part of everyone in this world. Asian people are unfortunate enough to be hated just because of how they look but if you actually talk to them about what they went through and how much pain they are in from all the negativity towards them in this world, you would never say such things. They know they are hated. They know they are unappreciated. They choose to study extremely hard because knowledge and wisdom is the only thing that will get them to be appreciated in the world. I have lots of friends who are Chinese who never smiled a day in their life. People cannot maintain eye contact with them and they never talked to a person for more than 2 seconds. They have to live in isolation. They hear such horrible things about them from other people that they cry themselves to sleep every night and wish that they were never born. Life is unfair for them. They don't need to know how you think of them they are already full of pain. Same goes for all other people and everyone, but I just think that Asian people have it really rough. I feel very, very bad for them.

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  • Being a Korean-American male in my mid 30s, I've had some time to grapple with this question. As a male I've been wrestling with this issue for a while. In my teens, 20s and now 30s I've dated predominantly Black women, White women, and Arabic women, but I never had the desire to date Asian women. Now, being in my 30s, I've had some time to introspectively analyze my true reasons for staying away from Asian women which I can't really mention on this post. However, I've recently admitted to myself that there are some really beautiful Asian-American women, but I still haven't had the desire to change my dating preferences due to some personal things that I'm working out. So, the issue is that you feel disgusted when you look at Asian men even though you still feel Asian women are not that great either. As an Asian American male I can see where you are coming from.

    I live in Northern Virginia where Asian males, even if they're Asian American, are looked down on and treated a bit like second class citizens even though some of my friends will say, "We've never seen you treated like that!" Oh, what do they know?

    Fortunately, my dad is one of those exceptions when it comes to Asian males where he has very angular and chiseled features, he is a 6 footer, is exceptionally kind and goes to the other extreme when it comes to manners, is very good with people, and enjoys making people feel comfortable. I'm not as tall as my dad, but I have a lot of his features and his people-magnet personality which removes a lot of the awkward label. I also spend a lot of my time working out, taking care of the aesthetics so that I can maintain a "chiseled look" and give my lady friends something decent to look at.

    I would say to you, be around and look at the people who make you better as a person, who help you to exponentially grow, and who help you to contribute to society in a positive manner. If Asian people don't help you with those kind of things stick to the people who do. For me, my mentors, coaches, lady friends, and the people that make me better happen to be of different backgrounds and cultures. Not too many are Asian, but I try to keep my mind and heart open so I don't inadvertently create enemies.

    In order to be honest and thorough with my answer I would say that a good majority of Asian guys need some serious help with many areas when it comes to aesthetics. Unfortunately, for some, they will have to really work on their personality in order to make up for the "lack of" in their physicality. Some of the Asian guys out there are kind of in the "decent looking" category, but like some of the other posters have mentioned it is a smaller percentage out of the bunch.

    In addition, from a Korean-American's male perspective, sometimes I would rather see an Asian female with a White dude. I know that sounds crazy, but now that I'm in my 30s, I'm not caught up on the little things that don't matter. Technically, I've seen some nasty looking kids from Asian female White male relationships as well as some decent ones so having beautiful kids or not should not fit into the equation, but if you are "bettered" by whoever you choose to be around or with that's what is important. For me, when I'm around beautiful Black, White, Latin, European, and Arabic women I'm at my best. I can be crazy, creative, funny, outgoing, and just plain have a ton of fun when I'm around these people, especially women.

    Finally, I know sometimes, one might think that he/she is part of the ugliest race, and to a degree it may be true, and can feel very annoying, but the reason that ideas like Eugenics are still supported is because the darkest parts of our inner most secrets sometimes desire wiping out the "less desirable". To a degree this may allow the selfish side of humanity to delve into pleasures that can potentially be enhanced by the increased percentage of attractive people in our vicinity, but the idea of Eugenics is a scary one because that is how Germany's rise to power was fueled by a support for the wiping out of the Jewish race. Also in Darwin's theory of natural selection which postulated the increasing of populations versus available resources and the eventual need to consolidate the human race to fit the available resources, which we then see issues like the manufacturing of food from unnatural sources such as GMOs, the type of medical care that we receive even if we choose to pay from our own pockets, the unhealthy ingredients placed in our foods to cause sickness, the crazy elements that make it from the water table into our consumed drinking water, and the list goes on. Needless to say, a loosely interpreted idea of "survival of the fittest" is well presented in American media which is why decent looking Asian American actors get shut out of roles that allow women to fantasize about them romantically. It's crazy that I'm going to say this, but I've grown up in the U.S. all my life, and personally I don't really have a desire to see an Asian male actor in a lead role because my mind has grown so accustomed to seeing every other race be "the man", my discomfort level reaches an all time high when I do see an Asian male actor having a prominent role. Isn't that crazy? I've become so brainwashed by American media that I want to see everyone else succeed except Asian males. Wow!

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    • your last point makes no sense; women can still come across good looking asians in real life, and can even find them more attractive than most white men. also, lead roles are pointless because they only play fictional characters, and many movies aren't even good these days. in fact, many white actors are not even that good looking. what's important is being the "man" in real life, and a good looking asian dude could certainly do that. after all, asian dudes are already getting the hottest asian women, right? besides, according to your logic, there aren't many asian women in media either, so does that mean men can't get attracted to asian women?

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    • We asians are becoming more progressive because the nature oppresses us by lacking of aesthetics.

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  • You're so right about Asian men being ugly. They are UGLY, sexually unattractive and not looking like humane males at all.
    However, as an Asian 'female', you are is as ugly as them. So, please stop chasing non-Asian men, attacking them at the bathroom lines at the parties when their drunk and weak. Date your own ugly kind to produce fewer ugly babies with them. You are such an ugly race, witch is dominating planet Earth already, so please live us, non Asians another 40-50 years when we still can enjoy ourselves before you, self-hating Asians wipe us out from the Earth.

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    • Ok, goodbye in a few years, glad to be rid of the haters, good thing is that whatever they say, they would be gone at some point.

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  • I agree. I generally don't find them attractive either. Very rarely I'll find an Asian guy or girl attractive, but it's usually if they're mixed with another race. You shouldn't feel bad about it. When it comes to art, music, cuisine, and even humans, you're not necessarily going to value all options in the same way.

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  • And seriously, man purses? hahahaha

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  • I think its perfectly normal. For me, both my parents are from China but fortunately, I was raised and born here in Singapore and eventually I got myself a citizenship here. I was laughed at in school for having PURE China blood, and I started to hate my own race. I started to hate Mandarin and thought it was stupid which I still think it is. I visit my relatives in China almost every year and trust me, I hate it. All they talk about are studies and my future career/salary. The traffic there is absolutely atrocious and the pollution is pretty bad too. In fact even I got into a car accident in that short frame of time when I was there, my grandfather actually died from a car accident. As the immigrants from China starts to increase in Singapore, Singaporeans started complaining about them talking loudly on public transports and neighborhoods. This gave me a horrible impression of my own race and I myself fucking hate China and most of the people there. I also think that I am fucking ugly and I often blame my 5 inch penis on being Asian. But that's only me, I'm just saying that its perfectly normal for you to hate your own race depending on what you have gone through in life. Peace out

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    • Also about that penis thing. I don't think any penis is beautiful! At least if it's not erect. It's just a weird kinda thing and well, if it's not enough for her- get her a toy or use your fingers ; ) No need to feel bad about it. And there are Asian men who don't have a small penis : D Like my handsome bf~ greetings

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    • I hope you don't let your 5 inch penis define you. I know women who married a man with a micro penis.

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      • Did you catch the main point in his “monolog”? I guess that he was not confused the most by the size of his reproductive organs.

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  • I'm an Asian too and I think I agree with this lady. Don't even bother about my nickname, it's nothing alike my real name in real life. I just, I don't know, Asian men are just *insert any insults you can think of*. And the thing is that, I'm an Asian man myself. I know it's stupid to embarrass myself and my own race, but I can't help it. Maybe one day, I'd figure out what's better for me. But this time, I'm trying so damn hard to be able to get laid with non-Asian. I know it's like I'm trying to suck up to another race or culture, but it's just how I really feel honestly. I still am attracted to Asian value and norm in general (polite, caring, religious, collectivist), but I don't really fancy their look, especially compared to other race.

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  • Statistically, 1 in 3 asian men are monkeys

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    • as if 2 in 3 Caucasian men do look like Apes
      as if 1 in 2 Italian men are midgets
      as if 1 in 3 russian men are cons.

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    • and 3 in 3 black men are chimps
      and 2 in 3 French men are gay
      and 3 in 3 white men beat their wives

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