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The only people who can be loved no matter what they do are women and children. A fully grown adult man is only loved on the condition that he gives something of benefit to his partner.
I don't think women can or should be loved unconditionally either. People are responsible for their actions, and there is no reason for people to like you if you're just being an asshole. Babies can get loved unconditionally because they dont even fully have understanding/free will yet the way older people have. So they simply cannot be accountable and are completely dependent on care from others.
I don’t think unconditional love is ever a good idea.
Even among parents and their children.
The only thing women love, are healthy bank accounts. End of story. Don’t believe me? Show me one that’s with a poor to average guy barely clinging to rocks..
What are you talking about? Plenty of poor/ low earning people are in relationships. It's totally normal.
They don't just love healthy bank accounts. They love height, charm, good sex, and humour too.
The problem is, if you don't meet these requirements, a lot of women think you're totally invisible. For example, if you don't meet a woman's height requirements, many women expect you to put even more effort into validating them than someone who does.
But God forbid you ever say you prefer a girl who takes care of herself to a lazy slob, as that's bodyshaming. The double standards from many ladies on the dating scene are frankly breathtaking.
Well I don't think men because most of them think with their little dickheads.
Women are far more capable of loving unconditionally than men. You clearly have jack shit experience with women.
I'm not making this up, I'm basing it on my own experience. Women are hypergamous and, on the modern dating scene at least, if a man who can do more for a woman than the guy she is currently dating bursts onto the scene, you can bet your ass she's gonna go with the guy who can do more for her.
The vast majority of guys on the other hand just want respect. Women underestimate most guys because they're used to dating fuckboys like Chad and Tyrone who treated them like shit during their sexual prime.
"Nice guys" aka beta males, are more likely to give women the attention and validation that they craved and still crave from Chad and Tyrone, but these "nice guys" aren't high-value to most women and are friendzoned. Yet they will love any woman that actually gives them their time, unconditionally.
Chad and Tyrone are high-value because they have lots of options. "Nice guys" have far fewer options and act accordingly.
I didn't vote because I'm in the middle... I feel it really depends on what type of woman you attract/seek for....
Some females are 'high class' so they expect/assume the man to be the provider and sometimes (assuming cuz I'm not in this category) they're not in it for love but for stability. Me being I HAVE to work for my own, Ik I'm good on my own, I want someone who ginuwinwly wants and loves me....
It all boils down to the females preference in the relationship
If he's either a blood relation to you, no longer with us, or both, that's different.
So you're telling me if a guy came along who could offer you more than your current boyfriend does, you wouldn't immediately leave him and go with the other guy?
No denial...that's what I thought. You don't love him unconditionally then. You're hypergamous, just like every woman.
Ooofffff I didn't come to the website for a long time. And my current boyfriend doesn't offer me anything other than himself. Okay, if you want to hear what I actually want from my boyfriend, then here it is. I went for him in the first place because he's cute. That's all. I only go for the looks. But now, after knowing him, I don't think I'll ever leave him even if a cuter guy comes along. And I earn more than him, if that's relevant.