I am so hurt right now

I just found out my boyfriend is cheating on me with some other woman. After everything we've been through, he has got some fucking nerve. Yesterday, he was in the shower for 40 minutes when he usually takes 15 minutes, which leads me to believe he's trying to get extra clean for another girl. And today, I was snooping through his phone, and what do I see? A contact that said "mother". This makes me suspicious because he BARELY talks to his mother, so why would she be in his contacts? Therefore, I think this is really is the girl he has been cheating on me with. And guess what else? He made NOODLES, which he has never made before . I think m he makes the other bitch noodles, which explains the reason he made something he has never made before. I am so pissed right now. How could he do this to me?

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  • So you've not actually caught him doing anything except keeping himself clean, calling his mother and enjoying some noodles?

    The post stinks of 'psycho'

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    • I'm thinking troll

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    • I've already EXPLAINED why this means he's cheating. He didn't make noodles until now, barely talks to his mother, and usually showers for 15 minutes. I am RIGHT. You can call me a psycho all you want bitch, but at the end of the day, he's doing some whore behind my back and I know it.

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      • You've explained why you think he is cheating but my point remains.. You haven't actually caught him doing anything at all.

        If you re-read my post, i didn't directly call you a psycho.
        But if you genuinely believe he is screwing around, why dont you just tell him to leave and find yourself someone else to stress over

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        • Why would I leave some asshole just to get with another asshole who screws around? I would rather not stress at all.

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      • If he's doing some whore behind your back then there's only one thing left for you to do.

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      • OK Borderliner.

        Now you need to explain to us why you made a deliberate choice to have BPD.

        You're old enough to write on this forum, you're old enoighh to know better than to have a personality disorder.

        You are being naughty and childish

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        • 😂😂😂😂

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  • So, try calling his mother's number and see who answers... and be ready to talk to his mother if she answers.

    Even if people rarely talk, they will have family and relatives in their contact list.

    I have brothers and sisters that I might talk to about every other year, if that. Then I have ones that I talk to frequently (I have 7 brothers and sisters).

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    • Sure, buddy. He almost NEVERS talks to his mom. And he obviously knows i've been snooping because I confronted about this bitch "Mom". So now he has phone on him at ALL costs, and when he doesn't, he hides it.

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  • Nice try. You really had me until noodles.

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  • This smells of pathological fishyness, but if it is true, you just came here to vent. No discussion there.

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    • "Pathological fishyness". What do you mean by that?

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      • Its a combo of pathological liar and fishy. I think you probably lie too much and your post smells fishy

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        • Lie too much? No. I am very honest. And YOU smell fishy. I can smell you right through the phone.

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  • I smell troll. 😑

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    • I'm pretty sure this person has been creating a lot of troll posts here for at least a couple of months now. Same general writing style and use of insults/defensiveness, all of the posts and replies to comments are equally ridiculous and attention seeking, etc.

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      • Um hmm...

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      • I think you're confusing me with someone else. I'm insulting them because I don't appreciate being called a troll. Try to understand that and i'm not trying to get "attention". I'm sorry you feel that way.

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        • Okay, so if you're man is cheating on you then why are still with him?

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          • I don't know.

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            • Well, you could confront him, and just ask him. Take his phone, and call the number like you are trying to call his Mama to see how she's doing. Ask to speak to his mama by her first name, and if some chick says you have a wrong number then there, you have your answer. Just do it!

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    • Jesus, why does everyone keep saying that? I come here, say my boyfriend is cheating on me, and then I get called a troll? Wtf?

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      • Well, if you're not a troll then just leave him. Cheaters are gross, and if someone cheats on me I just leave them.

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      • Because you presented no actual evidence that he was cheating.

        It appears to many of us that you are jumping to conclusions... without any actual evidence.

        Yes, cheating is a problem. But you may well have destroyed any future relationship by jumping to conclusions with no actual evidence; and not just with him... but anyone he tells the story too if he is innocent.

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        • There is evidence.

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  • Not cool to go snooping on his phone. The phone is just a more accessible portion of our personal space. Definitely not cool to shuffle through it.

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    • And it's not cool for my boyfriend to be cheating on me! After everything i've done for him, he's got some fucking nerve messing around with other bitches.

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  • NO ONE normally stays in the shower for 40 minutes. He's probably playing with his noodle in there!

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    • Or he's trying to get extra clean for someone else.

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  • If this is true then you would've dumped him ages ago.

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    • I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt.

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  • He needs to be forced to pay for this.

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  • So based on him having his mom saved as a contact and taking longer showers you'd believe this? Damn.
    I guess I have to delete my dad whom I rarely talk to from my phone so it doesn't look suspicious that I have his number, and I better never take longer showers, and god FORBID I cook NOODLES!... The very fancy, romantic meal noodles... That's truly the tip of the ice berg.
    I just could never stand the thought of my man making the extreme effort of cooking NOODLES for another woman... I mean, she would be SOLD immadiately! That's some real grand effort right there! It simply doesn't get much better!... If only I had a man to cook me noodles... Sigh

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    • It ISN'T his mother. He only talks to her once or twice a year. And taking 40 minutes in the shower? That's WEIRD. He has never taking longer than 20 minutes. And i've already explained, he does NOT cook noodles, but all of a sudden he wants to be brand new.

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  • Beat his ass jk sorry to hear that

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  • You have strong suspicions but in no way have you discovered anything. But usually when you're in a relationship and suspect something is fishy it usually means that something is fishy.
    Just observe because he will automatically change his behaviour if he suspects that you might know something or just confront him.

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    • I have discovered something..That he's CHEATING.

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  • Sorry to hear you're going through this. I would say not normal.

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