How to stop living for my parents?
I love my parents, they are great people. They gave me the best most secure childhood. However I feel like I have a lot of religious trauma in a sense. I’m married and have been moved out for two years now. Moving out before I got married was a strict no no. My mother told me I should just go to a community college so I did. She tells me not to quit my job so I don’t. She tells me not to have kids till I’m much older so I don’t. I want a tattoo but they think it’s sinful so I don’t. I love my mom but she’s very… a lot of stuff means you’re going to hell to her lol. I’m just curious, does anyone else have slight religious trauma and how have you gotten over it? How do you get passed living your own life and not worrying about disappointing your parents?