How do i approach this situation with my girlfriend

It's good that you blocked her. So is she stalking you?

Thanks, I wasn't kidding when I said I hate thieves. 😉

Yeah, forget that bitch! I have no heart for thieves! Junkies always try to manipulate other people into believing that they're victims. What she needs to do is to leave you alone, sober up, and start attending twelve step meetings. She might eventually make amends to you, because she does owe you an amends, but otherwise she needs a leave you, and your family alone.

Yeah, she's abusing pills. Since she's stealing Xanax from your mother, Xanax abuse can lead to a person appearing sick, which makes sense that she can't keep a job or sent home due to illness.

I'm sorry man, you're dating a pill addict. Until she can admit to herself that she has a problem, she wont stop depending on the drugs. You can love her as much as you want, but pulling someone out of drug use with habits so bad that they would steal from others will be a huge battle that no one should be involved in. You got to let her go as a partner, but you can keep her as a friend to check-in if you want.

She seems like a very flaky person at best, and still a thief at worst. Obviously, she knows what she did. Did she at least admit to it, and apologize? Well, regardless an apology is not enough to merit acceptance, or reconciliation, forgiveness perhaps, but certainly not reconciliation. I hate to say this, but I certainly wouldn't believe anything she has to say about her work situation, or much of anything else, because what we do know for a fact is that she's a thief. She rather sounds like she's mentally ill, and probably a substance abuser. If not a substance abuser, she's still a thief, and a thief is someone who cannot be trusted.

I'm sorry for all of my redundancy, but what you need, and what every decent person needs is someone who is honest, and we all know liars, cheaters and thieves are the opposite of honesty.

I personally think you did the right thing there, my man, and although it may hurt you, you and your mother are certainly better off without her! You deserve a decent, honest person who doesn't steal from you, or your family, or friends. I wish you all the best!

No worries, I care.

It's nice you gave her one more shot, because it's good to be sure. Yeah, it's clear she knew what she did, and isn't trying to make things better; you don't need that in your life.

Exactly! Also drug addicts can be a real burden. I have cousins who are addicts and they ruin the mental state of everyone that tries to help them. Don't let yourself become an empty husk.