Girls should settle before 30 and guys after 30

Let’s be frank. Guys go for looks and girls go for stability. Most peeps just get into their stride in their 30’s, but at the same time most peeps decline in looks in their 30’s.

Meaning:
Female prime: 20-30
Male prime: 30-40

U peeps agree or nah?

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  • Typical incel mindset. Don't you guys have a forum of your own?

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  • Nobody should ever settle either marry someone you love or stay single.

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  • You don’t get invited to many things do you

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    • Absolutely friggin right. I’m an incel with no friends

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      • Leave the relationship and family business to us extroverted hot people thank you, we’ll call you when we need our WiFi set up

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        • Kholat lol that was too funny

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          So bro, thanks for scratching my back. Let me scratch yours in return. 🤜🤛

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        • Nice comment. You’re good at spotting business opportunities.

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  • I think getting married in your thirties is a good call for anyone. Objectively could be finished schooling/training by then. Hard no on your belief though.

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  • why the fuck are people so obsessed with this shit do something else there is more to life than getting dick or pussy fucking touch grass

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  • People should "settle down" when they're ready, and if they want to. Doesn't matter the age, though obviously there's obviously a certain window of time for having children if that is something you want (though rushing into a relationship in order to have kids is also a terrible idea).

    I don't think anyone should "settle" though, as I don't believe anyone can truly be happy by settling into a relationship they're not completely satisfied with. You can't force yourself to have feelings for someone or be attracted to them. Also, there should be much more to the equation besides looks and/or stability, because those only go so far.

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  • If im using generalizations I would be tempted to agree but I always challenge my preconceived notions of generalizations so I disagree, haha

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  • You sound like a child.

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  • This only really applies if you mean people wanting to find partners in their prime while they themselves are in their prime along superficial lines but people don't work like that generally and people fall in love before and after their prime.

    Do you really think men should hold off from building a loving relationship until he's half way through his life? Sure does sound lonely!

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    • Nah, I just meant 30-40 is when men are most desirable in the dating market

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      • You wouldn't necessarily be wrong but I'm sure you'd agree that guys shouldn't wait for that time to come before building a family life? Granted they may have access to more attractive women if they become the ideal man in his prime but surely if there's a woman you love who loves you in return before that point then settling with such a woman shouldn't be passed up for the hope of access to prettier women?

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  • I'd rather not settle for anyone at all. xD

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  • I prefer to be alone rather than settle for anyone!

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  • The good girls usually get snatched up young I feel like. I noticed all the girls that were high status and attractive in my school were all taken and in a serious relationship by like 20. I started to realize if women by 30+ are still not married and have had 20 relationships and 100 hookups they often are not as good of a catch, they often have some problems. There's nothing wrong with these girls theyre great to hookup with but youd never wanna marry them.
    Eventually a guy would have put a ring on it if theyre that good of a catch. This is a real phenomenon, theres always exceptions but you can think of the single 35 year old women you know and see.

    Sometimes a chic in her 30s can just have some daddy issues and all along went after the wrong guys because she has low self esteem or whatever. Some of those ones are doable I think to be a wife.

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    • You need a warning label.

      The fact is, once women got their 30s without a dude, they realize how much better life is without a partner they have to tiptoe around or cleanup after.

      You failed to mention anything about how shitty dudes are while you spilled all your knowledge on ladies. That poor hamster.

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    • Nah, there are still good ladies in their 30’s and older. What I mean is that their prime starts and ends earlier than the dude’s.

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      • There's less

        Good luck finding an attractive woman in her 30s that doesnt have a kid, and doesnt turn out to be crazy, and hasnt had sex with 100 men and without any baggage.

        Theres a million 20 year old chics without a kid and issues. They just get found and married young. If shes a good catch ppl gonna try to marry her

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  • If you're going to marry, you should do it in your early twenties.

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