Feminism vs strong women

I see an enormous difference between strong women and feminists.

Strong women see the situation before them. They access their abilities and they work hard to improve them. They aren't concerned what others say or do. They are focused on bettering themselves. When knocked down they pick themselves back up. They are grateful and give others the benefit of the doubt. They do not waste time blaming, playing the victim game, or holding grudges. Then they reach success above most women and men.

Feminists conversely will snicker to each other on twitter. Make the most heinous accusations. And are looked down upon like infants. They affect no change in themselves or the lives of others. They complain endlessly treat others awful and complain they are alone. They are weak and insensitive and not taken seriously even by their friends who pretend along with them. They live in their misery and are the lowest form of women. Stereotypical cattiness, ignorance, insecurity, cowardice, illogical, overly emotional responses. Feminist stereotypes aside, they embody the negative stereotypes of women in general.
If their goal is to eliminate a gender divide they do just the opposite. They act subordinate and incompetent. And each time they yell at a man he is forced to see her for the inconsequential rodent she is. Where otherwise he likely would have seen her as equal.