Fake friends? please help

I have some "friends" (4 persons) in my school that are in a "crew". You know, sitting beside each other at lunch..Defending each other (even if its dumb) and talking shit about people. Yep. Those crews. And those persons have a good reputation by the teachers. But boy.. They find excuses, backstab, cuss, (alot!) cheats at all possible things you can cheat on and harassing people that already is harassed. They are often treated better by the teachers then us. And when i ever get into a fight with one of them, everyone in the crew has to defend the one i am fighting with. We have a group on whatsapp and i spammed 1 time like this: gdfgjkdngurnkmnk. And then, i was kicked. But when another one spammed, even more, he didn't get kicked. But after that i made a discovery. I saw that one of the persons from the crew wanted me to be kicked. The leader of the group said: Ok. When we have PE one of them always finds excuses. She always has a pain in the foot. Even after 1 year! And my friend (a real one) said how he accidently kicked a ball in a girls face. So one from the crew tried to comfort the girl. Now when that may sound sweet, i was sitting beside the same girl from the crew and then on of my friends said how i accidently got my knees half skinned when i tripped, the girl just moved to the side. And sure if the girl comforts one in the crew but the girl that got a ball in the face wasn't so good friends with the girl. I don't get it. My shoes were getting red due to all the blood and that girl only got a ball in the face. They team in games, give each other gifts, always teams up to harass someone. And the only thing i get is a fucking knife in the back. Please help.

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  • Oh high school, a place where teens are often stuck up and obnoxious due to their hormones. I was one of the lucky ones who still had my elementary friends who wasn't fake af. Focus on your classes because teens are generally rude. If that is not a option, find new friends.

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  • Teenagers are assholes is moral of the story.

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  • I'm so glad I'm not in school anymore, that place was awful.

    I know it's easier said than done but honestly just avoid them as much as possible. They are idiots and in a few years time you will look back on this and regret how much time you wasted worrying because they are all losers and they mean nothing in your life.

    Also start expecting better treatment for yourself. If someone does something to you that you know is out of line just call them out on it. Don't bow your head and accept it just because they think they are better than you, because they aren't. If they treat people badly then they are scummy losers who deserve no good treatment. Decide to stop being friendly with people who treat you badly and spend your time with people who treat you well. This is a surprisingly hard lesson to learn in life but once you do learn it everything gets better.

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  • Life gets better out of high school, you just have to suffer, sorry to say. The biggest bullies are the popular kids, and ironically, the leaders of the antibullying groups. Teachers and administration are blind, or just dont give a shit to what really happens on the floor. Best i can tell you, dont retaliate because the second person is always caught and punished, not the agressors. Best of luck.

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  • You're in high school. Things get harder once you leave, trust me. Enjoy your moment love. While it last....

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  • It's the way of the world. Unfortunately.

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  • If you have shitty friends find new friends. If you really don’t like drama your not going to allow yourself to be in it. When I was in school my group never messed with people that didn’t have it coming. We bullied the bullies. When they act like assholes call them out on it no matter who it’s against. Why do you want to be friends with these pricks

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    • crush is in the group..

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      • Find a new crush. If a person doesn’t have the guts to stand up against their friends when their friends are wrong. That makes them just as bad and their not worth it. You are who you associate with.

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      • You need new friends and a new crush

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