Ending a friendship because of temptations?
I just ended my friendship with a best friend, in mutual, non-hurtful terms after admitting I was afraid I would develop feelings for him, and since I'm in a relationship that's far better than any potential relationship with him could be, I had to let him go. We laughed and cried and made plenty of jokes, admitted we would never forget each other and that we had both been great friends and then, in a non-bitter way, ended things. We talked about all the great things that had happened, how much we platonically cared about each other, it was funny, it was sad, and it was peaceful. it's not that either of us had those kinds of feelings really, it's the potential for that kind of thing that had begun to create drama and tension and hurt both our friendship and my relationship. There was simply one thing he had that my boyfriend never would and it was simply that he understood my creative aspirations as an artist. no longer wanting to feel guilty and tempted to want to be with someone that understood that, considering my boyfriend didn't (I was okay with someone who didn't but a part of me still craved that understanding), I had to make the choice and finally I did. Is this normal to feel temptations outside of your relationship and have to avoid them? would you keep a friend around even if you felt that sort of temptation and you already knew you were with the one? most importantly, was it the right thing to do?