Does my boyfriend love me?
We were together for 9 months and he never said I love you. I eventually said it first to him and he replied with “love you too” in almost a mumbled way. He has said I would still love you if you lost an arm (we were doing those stupid hypotheticals) but apart from that he has never (it’s been 3 months since I’ve said it/he said it back) said it on his own. He’s never said “i love you” without me saying it first. I would have thought that he didn’t say it first out of nerves etc but after me saying it first I felt like he would begin saying it but I was wrong. I feel a bit hurt and also feel like he may have just said I love you too in that moment cos he would have felt awkward not saying it back/didn’t want to upset me. On the whole, he’s not a super expressive person (has his moments where he says I’m beautiful etc but on the whole not expressive) so should I just accept that he loves me but doesn’t say the words OR do I think that he only said it out of courtesy and that he doesn’t really feel it.
He just said it back because its the easy option | 8 | |
Yes, he's just not expressive | 15 |