Does mental illness count for anything

the only way you are allowed to miss important engagements say with school or work is to say you were throwing up (physically ill) or otherwise physically unable, but let's say you have a "mild" mental illness, to where you can superficially suppress it if you try really hard, like depression or ocd. Does anyone really give a shit if you have a disorder like that, or do they think it's just an excuse and you're actually fucking retarded for being so absent minded?

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  • shoka2322

    They better care because I have OCD! Sometimes if things don't go my way I'm not functional. I don't know how to answer this question with "is it normal" but i would say that mental illness counts for a lot!

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    • . i just wanna know what "normal" people think of the ways that mental illness presents itself in an otherwise functional person, and if they have any sympathy or similar issues; or they think we are just "weak-minded" and need to get our shit together like the rest of the world ?

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      • Ascelin

        It's probably a mixture for most people. A combination of pity and superiority. Like the rich people that feel bad for the starving children but not enough to do anything substantial about it.

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  • I was institutionalized for disorganized schizophrenia during my junior year of high school and my teachers worked around that pretty well. Though it was a private school and private owned institution. Was a straight A student with all AP's and Honors except my junior year. I blame myself for it, yes I can't help that I went schiz, but I still am of lesser use. Survival of the fittest. I couldn't keep up psychosis wise and I payed the price I deserved for it.

    The rest of my highschool career and when I attended university I started with my OCD and BDD through refusing to let my skin be exposed. Didn't effect my schooling too much, and my schizophrenia has been in a latent state for a while now.

    Bottom line, mental illness does effect people, no doubt, but you have to take responsibility for your shortcomings no matter what reason they're there. No excuses. I am a lower quality person because of my psychosis and my ticks.

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    • what do you mean you're a "lower quality person"? you seem pretty cool and intelligent, you realised you had problems and overcome them. that must've been really hard to deal with

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      • Oh I'm plenty cool and intelligent, but I am flawed in heavy amounts. Not a lot of overcoming has been done, I didn't overcome schizophrenia I medicated it and it happened to go dormant, I'll be sick with this disease till the day I die. I still cover my skin in thermal wear head to toe. And with these problems I struggle greatly, making me lower quality in many ways. I kick ass in my studies and could outrank my peers any day, but my brain gets messy, making me less of a scholar, and less efficient.
        If I did not medicate, I would not survive or meet the requirements of success in today's world, I would fail, and I would deserve the failure.

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        • Do you wear a balaklava or something? Or niqab?

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          • Balaclava.

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  • Diego35LovesHilda29

    Mental Health is very important and don't let anyone tell you that it is not . It could be just as debilitating as a physical issue>

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  • Tealights

    Never expect work to care about your mental health unless there was a death in the family (human only, I've learned the hard way that pets don't count apparently), or you make your mental illness known by making it super obvious (having a meltdown at work, openly talking about suicide or death, etc). Problem is, you'll get your day off, but you'll also get labelled as crazy, cry baby, etc by your peers; and some may lose respect for you or try to avoid you, which will make work difficult if your job requires teamwork.

    As for school, just go to the guidance counselor (yeah, they have one of those in college, should be in the student center). They're there to try to help you through whatever is bothering you so you don't have to miss school (some are good, some are bad though; so hope you got a good one).

    In the end, just accept that life isn't fair and that many people out there are assholes.

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  • I meant like college, i wouldn't really consider kids' school as an "important engagement" especially since they're more lenient and I was never forced to go to school anymore than kids are "forced" to do anything, so i'm not really sure what you're talking about

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg

    I've called in sick by saying I'm not comming in today I'm sick so I'm taking a mental health day

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  • KiarLhagus

    I would say in general, no, the average person in our not-so-great society doesn't count mental illness for anything, regardless of severity or what you do behind the scenes to fight it and appear normal for their ungrateful asses. Additionally consider that many mental illnesses are not "illnesses," "diseases," or "disabilities," rather you just happen to think differently than the cookie-cutter person. Some mental "illnesses" are labeled as such to dis-empower you, to make you feel lesser than the normie, to feel like something is inherently wrong with you. Not saying many disorders are difficult to live with, and some make life very, very hard, but keep in mind that not only are you worth more than anyone's patronizing eyerolls, but are also worth more than their sympathy.

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  • darausnicht

    Mental illness counts but as someone who has experience with it first hand and has someone who has been pushed to my limit by someone else with a different form of the same issue.

    The Americans with Disabilities Act covers the liability aspect. It's not even necessary to specify what specific diagnosis etc. That said, all the ADA does is give reasonable accommodations for someone to function on the job in the same way as other people.

    It is our jobs to tow the line too. We have to do our part. We also need compassion for the stable/people without mental illnesses in our lives. Many times I see many of us shitting on them and I have been there. When I realized what my responsibility was, I woke up. When I was riding the manic highs and living a recurrent train wreck of a life, I really wore people down to the ground.

    Mental health is no different than being sick. However, we have to understand that nobody owes us anything.

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  • New-Zealand-Guy

    The people that don't understand mental illnesses and OCDs are the ones that tend to think a person is just making up excuses and being slack which label the person that has the mental illnesses or OCD. However, those people need to open their minds and educate themselves. They are usually the first people to cry that it is not fair if the roles are reversed.

    Mental illnesses and OCDs are a sickness and they can start in many ways. The worst thing for these types of people are judgemental people like I mentioned above. There are people though that do understand what it is like to have a mental illness or an OCD. Mental health is very important, if anyone tells you it is not tell them to "have some compassion" and don't listen to them.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    They think its a shitty excuse. Unfortunately life isn't fair and it's not gonna wait on mental illness. One has to find a way to somewhat overcome it in order to get by. Then again I work at a shit place called Target, so other places might be different.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Hey cool person in a hat, I used to work at Target as an overnight stocker, and it was Hell. I just wanted to say that my heart goes out to you!

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        Aw thanks. I remember a time where I was actually happy working there. Things have gone really downhill in less than two years. It doesn't help that the district manager had said that he didn't give a fuck about the employees.

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