Does it make me a lesbian?

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So i've had boyfriends and girlfriends in the past but i think i might be lesbian as i cringe of the thought of having sex with guys and i cringe when i do have sex with them. It just isn't enjoyable and i always had to fake my orgasms. I will make out with a guy but anything sexual to do with them just grosses me out, i've never had sex with a girl though but it doesn't make me cringe when i think about having sex with the same gender as mine.

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  • Couman
    9 years ago

    Sound's like, but it's hard to say for sure. Did the thought of having sex with a man make you cringe before you tried it? Or did you perhaps have a bad experience and react to that?

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    • ThatZombieAddictedFreak
      9 years ago

      Before i tried it

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      • Couman
        9 years ago

        I'd say you're a lesbian then.

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  • curiosity_sucks
    9 years ago

    Try just enjoying who you are with. There is no need to label yourself.

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  • TheOneWhoComesFromEnordro
    9 years ago

    You're more like bisexual with a stronger pereference for other females.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    You just might be s lesbian. So what if you are, there's nothing wrong with being one.

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  • friedchicken
    9 years ago

    Has it always been that way? Sounds like the guys you're shagging aren't top notch. Especially if you're faking orgasms.

    You won't know for sure until you try it out with a girl, fantasy and reality are two totally different things.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Are you the intellectual college girl on here?

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    • ThatZombieAddictedFreak
      9 years ago

      Um no why?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Sounds to me like you are very, very young and have gotten into sex way too early and therefor haven't any idea of what a good lover can be, male or female.
    If you are attracted to only women, which does not sound to be the case here, then you MAY be gay. But if you are attracted to men (well, boys, in your case I'd guess), then you most likely are not gay. I think when you find a few men who will take the time and effort to put your pleasure before theirs, you will be fine.

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    • ThatZombieAddictedFreak
      9 years ago

      Well i'm attracted to both and yeah i'm young :/ but I know what a good lover is like, i kinda repied late to this but i've slept with a girl now and it was rather pleasurable, i'm certain that i'm lesbian.

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