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Is it normal to try feeling happy all by myself? I try to look for friends but never find and it stops me from achieving anything. It feels like I don't have meaning. Are all happy and successful people fully satisfied with their own company or does everyone need a very close friend to live normally?
Pure independence is impossible, and not even natural considering that humans are social animals. Happiness comes from fulfillment, and here's the meaning of life: responsibility.
You have to be responsible for something or someone besides yourself.
That is an intelligent answer, but I don't understand how to apply it. I am always responsible for studying hard, giving my best, using time and resources the best way but I hate it and fail. What kind of responsibility will help me?
Being part of a team, especially when you're at the head of it, is a great responsibility to have. Whether it's a sports team or academic club, organizing stuff brings a lot of fulfillment.
And if you're a woman, biologically and psychologically, you'll want to have kids in a few years. Otherwise you'll make 'children' out of political causes/feminist issues/other people's business. Not a good way to go.