Could you be in a secret relationship?

My partner and I are in a gay relationship, we've been together for 5 months and have known each other for a year or so. My parents don't know I'm gay, so I talk about him as my roommate or my friend. He's never liked keeping it a secret but he's gone along with it without much complaint until now.

We are committed to each other and he thinks that it's time I come out to my parents but I still don't feel I'm ready (He's the first guy I've ever been with) I love him, but I'm just not ready to be "The gay kid" yet.

He wants to introduce me to his parents, and he said he's not going to lie and call me a friend when he does. I'm nervous but maybe it's time I came out. Is he rushing me?

Yes 1
No 4
Maybe, depends on situation 4
As long as it isn't serious 0
Gay relationships should be secret 0
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  • Quenns

    My advice is to tell your parents right now. The time won't change their reaction/opinion anyways. Imo, if they truly love you, they will accept you whatever you are.

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  • Come out, mate. He'll support you. Don't waste an opportunity to be happy.

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  • Nickvey

    its like this , use your computer and research just how long two gay men on average remain partners , second you have a sexual relationship with him , not your parents . what you do with your cock is your business not your mom and dads. if he cant respect your opinions he doesnt respect you at all. Look i have nothing against your love , life sometimes is better without the drama . i dont see your relationship getting past this milestone in your life. just do some basic research on male to male relations,

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  • JonathanOo

    Don't be forced into what you're not ready for. Think about it

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