Can someone explain why women stalked me? i'm 32f. iin?

This dumb idiot texted me multiple times a day, she Facebook messaged me when I wouldn't answer my texts, and would drop by my workplace TWICE a day. I told her I'd end the friendship if she continued this, she didn't listen, and I cut her out of my life. She was messaging my friends asking them to talk to me. She was pestering my friends and cousins and asking where my boyfriend's house is located since I practically live there. My cousins refused to tell the dumb bitch and my friends don't know where my boyfriend lives. She backed off when my cousin threatened her with a machete.

A few months before this it was a lonely customer who mistook my fake smiles for something more and came by every day looking for me, watching me, somehow memorizing my work hours, trying to give me gifts asking if I was single. AP banned her because she refused to wear a mask. I never saw her again and good riddance.

A few months before that it was a coworker. She left her girlfriend to try to get with me and messaged me waaay too many times and pestered everyone trying to figure out my address.

Can someone explain why these chicks did this? They say you are what you attract, but I've always been an apathetic, uncaring, emotionless weirdo who dislikes most people and wants to be left alone. IIN?

Is It Normal?
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  • Maybe you're just a hot ass hoe.
    Maybe them bitches hear music in their heads when they see you.
    Maybe you're born with it.
    Maybe it's Maybelline

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    • Blech! Maybelline cosmetics suck. They did have that catchy slogan though.

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  • Your fake smile is really on point.

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  • 'They say you are what you attract, but I've always been an apathetic, uncaring, emotionless weirdo who dislikes most people and wants to be left alone.'

    Yeah, the typical retail or service worker. That's why I don't see them as ppl and don't bother to even fake a smile or say goodbuy when I turn to leave. I see them as some humanoid robots that are there only to serve me as a paying customer.

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    • We may as well be humanoid robots with all the smiles we fake to all the nasty Karens. 😂

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  • Why isn't there any woman to stalk ME?

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  • They might see your apathy as relatable and lose themselves in finding someone "like them," the apathy in themselves turning into yearning

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  • That is highly not normal and stalking is a very unhealthy behavior.

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    • Why the hell did they do this?

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      • You’re only stalked by women? Do you have the same trouble with men stalking you?

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        • Nope. Men back off quickly. It's only women that try this bullshit. I'm starting to wonder if female brains are dumb since it seems like females rely on emotion way too much.

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      • I don't know, people who stalk are very mentally unhealthy.

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        • Does it have anything to do with how their brains work? Idk I was thinking about it and noticed that chicks rely on emotion over truth a lot of the time.

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          • I'm sure the people who have stalked you probably have some sort of mental health problem. I guess my question is what is it about you that attracts these people to you? I'm not trying to blame you in any way, but do you know anyone who like you gets stalked a lot?

            Are you super friendly to people you don't know? Sometimes people misinterpret it when we're super friendly with them, but don't know them very well.

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            • I don't know why they liked me. I'm guessing they fell for the fake smile and enthusiasm I'm supposed to show everyone at work.

              Normally I'm covered in sweat since I'm on my feet all day and sometimes a little bit of dirt because the boxes that get shipped to us aren't clean. Also my hair gets in knots after moving around so much. I'm sweaty, smelly, and gross looking at work. 😄 Not sure what's so attractive about that.

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