Can opposites really attract?
I have no idea what I am doing with my life, shy, introvert. Everyone seems to be hanging out at the pub etc.
I do go but not often and when I do it's hard for me with all the people. Sometimes I wish I was loud and bursting through the doors.
I have started online dating because I don't really get out to meet people always been to shy to join clubs etc.. then this guy starts coming into my work, no attraction at all at first didn't even find him hot, but that's all changed usually I find someone really hot at first, not him, now everything about him is playing in my mind. Yet I know it'll never happen but it got me thinking... even if he did ask me out he would never like me because I don't go to the pub and I shy away from things because he is loud and always at the pub.
2. To meet new people I'm going to have to join clubs... not pubs.. clubs and they will probably be clubs that all the saps go to like myself and I can't see me being attracted to them to be honest. As for the online dating I can't even see their personality much. I never ever thought I'd be attracted to this guy but just everything about him wows me now, what if it never comes again?
I find it hard being confident about not going to the pub much.
So will anyone loud and fiery ever like someone like me?