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I am a straight guy and I am currently going out with a girl who is bisexual and people give me a lot of the flack for doing this, is my current relationship possible?
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I don't see why not. I've dated bisexual women.
The only significant issue I ever had was with one woman who kept insisting I get a second girlfriend who would be her girlfriend as well. Everyone go ahead and make fun of me but that didn't excite me like it might many. It kind of made me angry actually, especially when it came up more than once. I do respect consensual polygamy but I'm very monogamous and to me it didn't feel much different from her asking if she could sleep with other men, even if the other woman was supposed to be my girlfriend too. I've definitely been called a complete idiot for not jumping all over that but it's not for me at all.
I guess what I'm getting at is that it's only problematic if the bisexual person isn't just attracted to both genders but seems to have a profound need for both simultaneously. Even still, if they cheat or harass you to include another person that's on them, not all bisexual people.
(And to be clear, I don't think that's a super common issue, just one that does sometimes occur.)
Sounds legit to me, I don't see why anyone should be made fun of for something like that. Sadly, in my experience at least, it does seem like a -somewhat- common issue. I do live in the ghetto basically lol, lots of weird stuff happens over here.
But I think that's pretty fucking stupid and a lot of my female friends have tried saying bullshit like that. Everyone operates differently. People often ask if I'm into girls and sometimes don't believe me when I say no.D: yeah that shit kinda pisses off anyone lmao. It's ridiculous how stupid people are honestly. /end rant. But yeah I getcha
I don't understand how bisexuality has anything to do with this. I think theres a misconception that bisexual people have to date two people because they like both genders? but its got nothing to do with that. Just because you like vanilla and strawberry icecream doesn't mean you ALWAYS have to have both at the same time. even if you only like vanilla icecream if your a greedy fuck you would get two scoops anyways.
I can be attracted to both men and women. I want to date a man. I would only like to be with one person at a time, and with as few people as possible overall.
Problem solved?
Yeah, I couldn't help but notice that people in this post are thinking of the louder, outspoken, small minority of bisexuals who need to be with more than one gender. Not all bisexuals are like this. Most bisexual people just have one partner for life regardless of whether it's a man or woman. XD
Sure, as long as you get the groundrules straight first. Because if you're thinking marriage, you're both going to have to agree on what's going to happen with her and other women afterwards.
As long as you can accept her bisexuality and allow her to have other partners (no lies - open and honest) there should be no problem. Millions of people make it work world wide.
I dont see why that cant work...
Maybe theyre jealous because you might get to have threesomes
Of course it's possible for a straight man to date a bisexual woman. My boyfriend is straight, I'm bisexual and we're just as loyal and happy as any other couple. XD