Boys, men, women would you leave someone if ?

You can contact him, if no response, move on. If he answers, then explain your feelings about him to him. If he don't get it, then move on. Don't stay in a dead end relationship.

I would just leave it alone. It doesn’t mean you did anything wrong, he just wasn’t feeling it and he doesn’t really have to have any exact reasons why other than he didn’t feel a connection after a certain point. I’d just move on.

I would leave someone who refuses to communicate direct to the point or refuses to be available for any reason. I think you should stick with him and if he refuses to open up, then leave. Relationships are two ways. Unfortunately, the reality is move on in this scenario. It sucks but reality works that way and life happens.

If you've already told him about your anxiety issues and you've had 9 dates the sad news is I don't believe his attitude will change and he will decide to pursue a relationship.

I wouldn't worry and blame yourself. He seems well practiced in dumping women.

Not the news you probably wanted to hear but I wish you well. You sound like a genuinely nice person.

Sometimes when I poop I can see bits of corn in it.

This is on him and not you. You should try to find someone who will love you for you no matter how it is in the beginning because of your anxiety. I have a girlfriend who we barely even said anything to each other on our first date because we both are anxious as hell. She is honestly more confident then me relationship wise and she excepts when I don't want to do things. We've only been dating a few months (3-4) but I just think if it wasn't for her being understanding we wouldn't even be at this point and I wouldn't have seen her after the first date. To say that it is your fault is ridiculous. You did your part by explaining what happened and he needed to do his in trying to understand. He just wasn't good for you.

I can say first-hand that I have a girlfriend with gender dismorphic disorder, and physical contact used to be really hard for me. There's moments where it still is for her.

Anyway, I'm saying it's worth waiting and dealing with. You're somewhat the same, you don't like being touched and all.

He doesn't seem to disagree, and that's fine. What was different for us is that we've been together for a year or so before we met irl, so the love is already there and I was willing to go through anything regardless. Since you two have been just dating, maybe he doesn't want to deal with the package. That's okay too, I'm not condemning him.

Leave the poor guy alone, you need to sort yourself out or you will become a mad ‘cat’ lady and have no man in your life, you have frightened him off, so leave him, move on and learn from this experience, he sounds like a good guy, you will find someone else in time, but I really think you need to work through your anxiety issues, learn to love yourself and never settle for something or someone who does not live up to your standards,
One more thing, never go with a guy just to keep him, never get in a situation that scares you, and on the first date, talk about what you would be looking for in a relationship, how fast or slow you want it to grow,

No!

You don’t go from saying it’s good and being okay to saying I’m not ready... if the time was different I’d make you my girlfriend. It’s like he’s pushing me away cause he’s scared.
I get the commitment thing but I never once mentioned a relationship.

It’s just weird how he was fine and normal until I phoned him. And what he said didn’t make sense so I wanted some help in making sense of it.

Would a man just leave if he was getting affection? Not as in sex he said he wasn’t just after that because if he was he wouldn’t have travelled. Yes I should be able to let it go and I am honestly trying. But he means a lot to me as a person. How can I just let someone walk out of my life ?

He said he isn’t ready for a relationship.

This is the third post about the exact same thing.