Blow job phobia :s

This may seem weird but I HATE giving blow jobs. I have no idea why. I have done it before with and without a condom but I find it disgusting, especially without a condom, it's bad enough with a condom.

Sometimes I feel like I'm ruining my boyfriends sex life because when he askes for one I look at he's dick like it's a nasty unknown creature or something.

Is this normal??? By the way I am a hetrosexual female and don't have any problems with sex.

Is It Normal?
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  • I can't help but thinking that anyone who thinks blowjobs or penis' are disgusting is obviously too immature to be having sex. That was my mind set when I was 14.

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  • Yes its normal. I would dump you right away (actually i have done it before for the same reaoson), but maybe you will find a guy in the future that shares the same feelings with you about the subject. Good luck with that.

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  • To each their own. If it not appealing to you then dont. there is nothing wrong with making a deal/trade ;) ) But really it took me a couple weeks of pleasuring my bf orally before i started to like it, and now i love it! But I never found it disgusting, dont use that word infront of your bf, as it might make him insecure, but if you axplain how you feel im sure he'll understand. Don't leave out the part about how you worry its something wrong with you, not him, and how you really do wish to fulfill his sexual life in any other way you can.

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  • You commenting people are the most disgusting. She doesnt like it. But the disgusting degrading humiliating way you people act on her because she doesnt like it is the most disgusting. She doesnt have to like it! This way of sex was invented to degrade all of you into an animal level and i see it succeded because you people are human anymore. If you people want to suck a dick then do it but dont force anyone to do what she or he doesnt like. Not with physical force not with this disgusting blackmailing way that 'you would have already dumped her because of that' then bro you only deserve an empty headed slut who sucks everyones cock! Assholes

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  • Most women give blow jobs regularly until get married...then rarely give them in long term relationship.

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  • think of it this way:

    how selfish you are being: have you received oral sex yourself? do you enjoy foreplay when your bf kisses/licks different parts of your body?

    how arrogant you are being: don't you want to sexually please the man you love? Isn't that a big enough motivation to put aside your sexually immature thinking of "eww, wee wees are yucky"?

    how OFFENSIVE you're being: you've categorized a part of a man's body as being dirty and disgusting. That's no way to respect your man's body, and it's offensive to half the world's population. Most of us are hygienic, thank you very much.

    how LAME your outlook on sex and sexuality is: humans are supposed to enjoy sex acts. you're killing a very big, important part of that intimate joy.

    don't blame your bf if he cheats on you for a little sexual release on the side. as a woman you may not understand, but that's how important a good bj is to a guy.

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  • You will live a lonely life plagued with relationship failures unless you find that special guy that does not like a woman sucking his dick. That would be one in a million. A woman's ability to suck a dick correctly brings a man to a greater orgasm because of the number of senses used. For thousands of years the world has been fighting over religion, food, water, shelter and most importantly ,,,,SEX. It is a necessity for the sustainment of life. Certain things arouse people, but I do not know many men in our society that would ever not enjoy the sight of sensation of a woman giving a blow job and swallowing. It is the suction during climax and seeing it that increases the intensity of the orgasm. I would recommend learning how to enjoy pleasuring your partner rather than taking a negative approach to this issue. Most women find them selves in and out of relationships because of sexual tensions. It is true most guys want a professional and sophisticated woman who knows how to be elegant and intelligent, but they stay with the ones that are sexy and sexually active at night. Sorry to say, that is how society has been engineered for the last 5000 years.

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