Bf prefers me to shave and says it's gross

Why is it okay for him to make you feel bad but not okay for you to make him feel bad?

He's a douche.

PS-tell him all the guys in porn have bigger dicks than his.

Wanting a shaven woman is what 80% of men want due to porn and other girls accommodating or simply following the trend.

What pisses me off is how he's trying to manipulate you into feeling insecure. Talking about how he's going to dump an attractive, successful actress because she doesn't shave?! Bullshit. Also, he's calling you gross indirectly. He's an immature asshole who still thinks with his dick. You can either find a better man who is comfortable with the real world, or hope this asshole grows up (which could never happen).

Dated a guy in the past that also said girl's natural state was nasty. That hair down there was nasty. That fluid secretions were nasty. That having a vagina at all was gross and he didn't want to touch mine with his hand. Yet he expected me to give him handjobs and oral. I never did lol. I touched him maybe once or twice ever but never did anything else, after finding out about his shit attitude. He treated my body like it was all dirty and gross between my legs and only wanted my ass and tits 😒 . Don't date guys like that. If anyone shakes you for your body, they're too immature for you.

He's a jerk. Totally. My boyfriend never demands shit like that. You shouldn't date someone that can't love and respect your natural body. I get oral sex whenever I want and he never fusses about the hair... and I mean think about it this way, the hair doesn't actually grow on your goods. Your vagina itself, has no hair on it, just the outside and lips. So why should it bother him? Just silly and definitely cultural. I can understand him asking nicely for you to shave if he was respectful and understanding to your body, and didn't throw a fit, but shaming your natural body is selfish and unacceptable and he does not deserve you. And trust me, my boyfriend proof not all men are like this.

On this, I agree with Rose: your boyfriend is an asshole. What's more, he's an ignorant asshole.

It's your body, and he has no right to expect you to remove your pubic hair, much less have it removed in a certain way.

Even though he claims it makes him feel bad, you are right to say that this is something that has come from porn - and fairly recent porn at that. The fact that it's now widespread doesn't alter that fact.

If it's a big thing for him, tell him it's only fair that he wax his own pubes as well.

If you really want to screw with his head, ask him if the real reason he wants you to have no pubic hair is because he has a secret desire for pre-pubescent girls.

I don't shave or wax and I'm a girl.

He sounds like a bummer.

I prefer pussy hair thats well groomed.

Do you realize that the hair holds onto the stank, just like armpit hair? If you want him to go down on you or have sex with you, the least you could do for him is shave. There’s nothing worse than a girl spreading her legs and being overcome by a waif of sea-breeze. Also, pubic hair in the teeth is DISGUSTING! I keep the hedges trimmed and I expect the same from my girls. If she prefers to have a big stinky bush then I say “gooday” and move on to someone who believes in hygiene

Shave or wax not necessary. Trim super short weekly with electric clippers. No pain, no embarrassing appointment, no cost after paying 25 dollars for clippers

Shave and wax if you want. It's not your boyfriend's decision. If he has a problem with that, he can leave.

Install Net Nanny on his computer while he's gone.

Seriously, your boyfriend is an asshole.