Bf is now breaking up with me bc i deleted

i deleted a snap from a girl he rarely talks to and he found out and at first i lied, and then i told the truth... now he’s breaking up with me.

Is It Normal?
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  • It's pretty normal to get dumped over snooping and lying.

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    • what do you think i should do? all he is saying is goodnight good morning and that he loves me. there’s not much talking besides that

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  • I would think if you supposed to be "dating" it's a lack of respect on his part keeping private conversation hidden from u. It sounds to me that you both should just go your separate ways. Get away from each other and next time you get into a relationship with a guy, make sure it's what you want, and DONT SETTLE FOR LESS

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    • he wasn’t trying to keep the relationship hidden though. it was just a snapchat

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      • So, just a Snapchat to send text or pictures ? I have never been to or in Snapchat to know how far things can be taken on there. Was it a Friendship, or an actual relationship. Maybe just sexting and talking dirty to each other ? Either way it's still not right or good for your situations to be having conversations hidden away from you. If situation was other way around and you discharging with another guy, what would your "bf" do or say ? I'm wondering also if he left it for you to find so that you would break up with him so it would save him from having to break up with you ? Just listen to your female intuition.

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  • Learn the meaning of the word "boundaries".

    You sound really insecure and there's no valid excuse for messing with someone else's phone. Nor is there a valid reason for blatantly lying when asked if you did that.

    He's better off without you, and you'd be wise to try to learn from this experience and grow up a little.

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    • he has a history of being emotionally abusive, and has been physical once. he also has been to massage parlors getting happy endings, not anymore, but he has. you really don’t think i have a reason not to trust him? .... he doesn’t care that i did this... he found an opportunity to control me. he will come back

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      • You didn't mention any of that in the OP, did you?

        If all that is true, then you'd have to be pretty damn stupid and self-destructive to get involved with him again if he does come back.

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