Best friend with benefits?

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I have a best friend who I talk regularly too and we have a, what we call, adrenaline-fueled friendship from past a year. Recently, certain events happened and I slept with her. Now the next day we talked about it and she said that she has needs to but she doesnt want to go in a relationship with anyone and she trusts me to keep this secret so she wants to keep things that way.
Well, i was okay with it for some time but now I started developing feelings for her.
I want to express it in front of her but I am scared because I can't loose her whatever happens.

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  • Strj
    5 years ago

    Just keep fucking her..

    She said to you clearly she doesn't want any relationships.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Why do you need to talk about feelings? Feel the feelings, but don't talk about them

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    • Ellenna
      5 years ago

      Good advice to someone who has stronger feelings than the other person. That's exactly what I do with one of the blokes I have sex with: I do have feelings for him other than sexual but I don't need to tell him about them, especially as I reckon it would turn him off and then I'd miss out on the great sex.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    You are gonna turn her off dude

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  • megadriver
    5 years ago

    I've had that... Before I met my girlfriend I wasn't ready for another relationship, but I did want to satisfy those male urges. One of my best friends, a girl, didn't want a relationship either, but wanted to satisfy her female urges.
    Always thought she was hot, she is very skinny and about 1.76m and has small breasts.

    We used to hang out a lot, I'd regularly visit her in the weekends, we'd eat dinner together, watch movies and sleep in the same bed. So one night we decided to go for it. She trusted me enough. We kept it quiet, she was amazing. We kept the friends with benefits thing going until I met my girlfriend.

    It was all of the good things without any of the burdens of a relationship. And back then I didn't have time for a proper relationship. Too much stuff to do at work and at my company. Too many problems, too much anger. And I was still dealing with a lot of self hate, regret, depression and drinking myself to sleep every night. Not really boyfriend material...

    Today, about 3 years later, we are still good friends and occasionally hang out.

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  • CoffeeTime
    5 years ago

    First of all, she doesn't want a relationship. Even if you get into a relationship with her, do you think she wouldn't sleep with anyone? Don't be an emotional idiot. Throw feelings away and make use of the opportunity.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    Don't say anything. She said she doesn't want a relationship, so if you say something it'll just make things awkward.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    You can like her but she dont want to be ur girlfriend. Dont fuck that up. Even when you have a girlfriend you can still smash her on the side.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Some best friend.

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  • brutus
    5 years ago

    Just keep having sex, perhaps she will develop feelings for you too.

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  • Taylorvai
    5 years ago

    Dude your fucking stupid keep putting your dick in her while someone else is to she's a slut she is saying I like fucking just your not enough that's what she is saying man women are not what they used to be

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