I lean towards dominant, tho if my wife is feeling extra frisky, I don't mind her being in charge. Definitely a turn on seeing a delicate, skinny woman get what she wants from a big guy who was in the army and takes no shit from anyone.
I'm dominant but I'm in the weird circumstance of not being dominant enough. I can slap but it's never hard enough. I dont like to bruise but apparently I need to leave a mark that lasts weeks.
I love a man that can take complete and utter control of me and when they need to get a load off they make that apparent. Love assertive men, im a good sub ^O^
I’ve heard of this, people who are in charge in their day-to-day lives like to switch off and role-play as a submissive. It even happens in the Wolf of Wall Street when he gets a prostitute to shove a candlestick up his bum.
Honestly I hare role-playing, throws me out of the moment and into my head making enjoying the moment fully completely impossible for me. But yea it is rather common wich is most interesting. However I have not seen that movie, it sounds interesting though