Are you actually the original you?

I guess it should be first said that normalcy is relative. Even though I find the following idea to be normal to myself, I am curious what others might think.

I have lately wondered if I am genuinely me; the me that was birthed some 25 odd years ago. As an infant and toddler, we seem to act more on basic instinct and wants rather than consciously choosing. But when the moment of your first choice presents itself, does your original self cease to be? Instead, is the instinctual, wanting you gone only to be replaced with those choices (and I use choices in the sense of the beings that made each choice available).

To better illustrate the idea, we are always told that we live in a world of infinite choices. Perhaps the saying does not mean that we, as beings capable of consciously choosing, have an unlimited number of choices at our disposal in any given situation, but rather that we live amongst those choices (again, the latter choices is used in the sense of beings that made each individual choice). That is to say, You #1 has a choice of chicken or steak for a dinner. You decide you would like chicken and thus become You #2. Does this now mean that the possibility of the choice of steak is gone? Quite the contrary, You #3 is having the steak. One choice has steak while the other choice has chicken and the being that was originally presented with the selection has further divided to become another collection of choices inhabiting the world.

Of course, the question then is: if we are living in a world full of multiples of ourselves that further divide at every intersection of choice, why can't we see them? Perhaps evolution deemed it unnecessary for us to be able to wholly perceive these other choices of us. And perhaps at times, those choices are visible in places and/or times when whatever fabric that makes up the time-space continuum is weak as what we mistake as ghosts and demons. Because our perception is limited due to necessity by evolution (just as was our ability to sense low amounts of radiation emitted by such things as the sun), we mistake these other choices for entities they are not. But I digress, back to my question.

As soon as a choice is made you are no longer the being that was presented with the choice, but now both of those choices. The "original you" has ceased to be, in a sense.

Normal? I think so, but do you? Comments.

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Comments ( 19 )
  • so_damn_unpretty

    O_o hmm? ...I take it this post is addressed to smart people

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  • id41695

    A person can not be original. People are a product of the environments they are and have been and genetics contributed by there mother and father. Every time you make a choice there was a series of event and ideas that led up not only to the predicaments or questions but the decisions or answers that have been influenced by something or someone around you. There can not be an effect with out a cause. A sane human being can not be random or chaotic. It is simply not possible. So in conclusion no matter how young or how old or in any situation at any point in time a human being is not Original. AT ALL...

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  • 666XxFURRYBEASTxX666

    Me as a Philiosopher: Are you actually the normal you?

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  • NovaHD

    I know this post is old but have you ever talked to a kid who's 2? they call it the terrible twos for a reason! kids that age can finally act for themselves and are typically bratty and self focused. that's the original you. we're socially manipulated to act a certain way and choose certain things, and basically care about more than just ourselves.

    it may sound awful but I think it's a lot better than a bunch of two year old brats running around!

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  • Ginger_Snap

    I think you need to more clearly define what "you" are. If you believe that making a choice changes who you are because your experience is different, then other people's choices also affect you. If I choose the steak, then you are the "you" that is in the universe in which I chose the steak. See what I mean? I believe you are choosing a definition of self that is too stringent.

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  • I think like this a lot

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  • bubber

    this is mind blowing. I used to think of this when I was a kid.

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  • Legion

    I wonder sometimes, if the choices we make here are the opposite in another universe, that is if the universes are bound to each other. You choose chicken, and your alternate self in the other universe chose steak. did we actually make the choice, or are all possible options just randomly played out in the different universes?

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  • I've changed dramatically and I no longer recognize the person who stares back at me in the mirror. I am a completely different person than I was one year ago, five years ago, a decade ago. I am not me I am a stranger.

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  • TheGuyWhoLovesSpicyStuff

    yeh, im definitely my self.

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  • racemethorphan

    Your 'soul' or 'personality' -- a.k.a. behavioural profile -- has of course changed since your were born.

    Some elements are probably still recognisable, however. You're definitely you, but you've changed.

    Then there is the whole dilemma of what links you at T=1 to you at T=2 and how can we be definitely sure you are indeed the same person 'on the inside' from one point in time to another... sometimes I think the only thing which links me today to me yesterday are the memories encoded in my brain... my 'viewpoint' may be going every-which-way at all times but I don't remember any of that so AFAIK I've been in this body and seeing with only these eyes the whole time :)

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  • mieoux

    I bet you are smoking weed right now!

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    • 666XxFURRYBEASTxX666

      Like you

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    • thisuseridsucks

      No, I'm not. I don't concern myself with such things.

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  • mieoux

    I assure you, there are no multiples of you walking around. You are the same you that was born but hopefully you have grown and developed a lot more based on the choices you speak of. These choices just affect how you grow and what traits you develop more prominently but they don't spawn off another you. I can guarantee you that there are no other yous apart from you in this universe at least.

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  • andyp

    what if the universe is a hologram played out on a quantum computer, and its job was to simulate a end result and come up with all possibilites to reach this result, then all possibilities exist and dont exist at the same time, it would go back in time fixeing thing so the outcome could happen
    you assume time is linear streaching from the past and all event in the past make the future what if they dont

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  • MisterE

    Really interesting to read that.
    I think what you're getting at is that somewhere in reality is an infinite amount of universes that fulfil the happening of Everything, and our perception is merely a single thread of the fabric of what is real.
    When it comes to decision making you are yourself, but an everchanging and contunually evolving self; Every second our minds are bombarded by new information, various sunconcious influences, our variating mood and elation, giving minute changes to what we decidide. In addition to this, about every ten years, all the cells in your body will have reproduced and died, meaning that we are technically a different animal- Almost like the divide between caterpillars and butterflies, but at a much slower rate.
    Considering the lost choices that you didn't make, forget them. You don't perceive the other universes in which you choose the steak, you perceive the universe where you picked the chicken. It will always be that universe, and nothing more.

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  • hotchickie81

    I often think about things like this too. My mind never stops!

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  • Alaxett

    What a very profound, fantasic topic... I used to have so much time to study about authentic personality, but I still can grasp all of that.

    I would like to begin with a quote from psycholoist Barry Schwartz, "The temptation to not choose is great in a world where there is a large number of options." This man do make a good point, we can't be everything we want to be. Like, can you imagine what happen to your twin brother if he was take from your family to somewhere far away, sure as a different country, and two of you meet in much later in life? Will his origial personality be completely different than your? Because of the whole nature versus nurture situation, I doubt it. Heck, you can choose either chicken or steak and become #2 or #3, but do that mean you will become #4 if you get to choose between two again, and become either #5 or #6, so on? I think so, but at same time you're still #1.

    Has it ever occurred to you that there is an inner child within us that hasn't changed one bit? I met mine, and it was one of the most warm feelings I ever had. No matter what choice I made, wise or stupid, I'm still me.

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