Are these normal qualities to have when ur 27

Please fix your grammar, and you will attract a better man.

There are 18 year old guys who are not like him. They don't mooch, they pay for themselves and are serious about studies. Go find one. Learn from his example what it takes to be a success.

I would say dump him also, find someone that will respect you, and treat you as an equal not some house maid and a 3rd wheel. He sounds like a jackass to me. Oh and no FOR 27 he should stop being a mommy and daddys boy. Instead he wants to sit around and smoke weed. And cigarettes are so fuckin nasty and stink to high hell. He probly doesn't even go outside to smoke. Chicken shit people that feel they have the right to smoke wherever. But us non smokers have the right to breath clean air.

If "ur" too dumb to know by now, you deserve him.

Dump him and date someone you deserve, instead of a manchild.

Well, I don't know this guy but men who want a gf/wife who will clean up after them and do everything for them are lazy and probably misogynistic. Why doesn't he have a job? Is he unable to work due to a disability or is he just lazy? Is he trying to find a job at all?

oh come on. this guy is a loooooser. how do you expect him to take care of any situation if he can’t perform basic daily functions? i know it’s hard to leave someone you’ve grown to like certain things about, and gotten used to having around. but he’s dragging you down. the fact that you’re even on here questioning it shows that you know it deep down as well. don’t sacrifice so much of yourself for someone who’s not even close to willing to reciprocate that for you. and if there’s one thing i’ve learned, people don’t change. little things maybe, like learning to keep cool in arguments or help out around the house more. but not their entire lifestyle. it just doesn’t happen. the more time you waste with this guy, the more you put off meeting someone who can actually be there for you and meet you half way on things.

I'm gonna take a guess and say the OP is friedchicken, of course i may be wrong. Anyhow is not for me to judge him, it's good enough that he's going to college and its studying hard to land a job and build a career, unless he doesn't study all that much and this is just a way to keep on leeching of his parents. I'd say you definitely need to establish some ground rules, your not his maid or his sugar momma. He needs to start taking some accountability for his actions, lay off the recreational drugs and rely solely on your affection to relieve him of the stress that afflicts his daily life. The true question is if you believe that he loves you as much as you do him, and that only he can answer through actions, not merely by sweet talking you into believing him.

he is your bad boy not ours. so does he get you of like no other guy?

He is unambitious. But paying for your own stuff sometimes is fine..Just because you are a girl doesn't mean you deserve free things. But in this case, it is annoying since Mommy and Daddy are giving him 500 dollars a week.

Would you want to marry that guy?

No? Get out while you.

Get some self esteem too.

All that with weed, cigarettes and messy apartment would be fine if he wasn't going to school instead of having a job...and if he wasn't begging others for money..spoiled brat

You can have fun but I wouldnt think of anything long term. I understand the being broke but no one wants a lazy drug using baby daddy. I knw people that got with guys like this and hate it

why would he work if he doesnt need the money and his parents are rich ?

FFS !

Of course not, he sounds like a careless moron, eve penguins act better than that. Why don't you get yourself one.

Dump that loser

Here is my recommendation:

Be very clear with him, that you can afford to pay for your food, but not his food. That you will clean your mess but not his messes.
If occasionally you choose to get something for him or for you to share, that is a nice special thing, but not your constant obligation.(this part you don't have to tell him probably, I'm just saying)

And concert tickets are very expensive especially for a band like that, so if they aren't your favorite band you've been saving for and would see anyways, then its perfectly ok for you to skip it.

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Tldr
Don't let him bully you into doing more than what's fair. I think he will understand, and if not then it may take more explaining and if still not then maybe it isn't right. But I wouldn't jump ahead, I think first step is to just be clear with what you are seeing as appropriate.
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Also just as a tip even though most would say you are morally correct here, myself included. I would suggest stating this as what you see as appropriate, so you aren't unnecessarily making him feel guilty about the past.

duh

WHY