Am i in the wrong to punish him?
I am angry to have to post this but here I go:
So my son (15) came to me yesterday saying he wants to file a complaint because this girl at school kneed him multiple times in a row in the groin. He said he didnt deserve it and when I asked him what happened, he said he put his hand under her skirt and touched her butt. But apparently later I heard from my older daughter that the girl had tried to stop him but he overpowered her and kept grabbing her butt, which makes it even worse.
Then her friends waited for him later, grabbed him by the back and she kneed and slapped him multiple times until he fell down in pain. He said he was still in pain and she could have injured him, he wants to punish her.
I was so disappointed in him disrespecting a woman like that I kicked him in the balls myself with my shoes on, he fell down in agony for a good 45 minutes. My daughter believes I did the right thing too, I don't want my son to grow up to be a harasser or rapist.I told him he better clean his attitude.
He also won't have clean underwear for the next month, I want to put the point across.
When he was still sleeping this morning my daughter woke him up by throwing an icepack on his groin, saying he might need this.
Am I in the wrong to punish him this harshly? As a mother I want my son to grow up a be a good husband, father and citizen.