All my rejections end badly, i'm confused

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It seems like every time I get rejected by a girl things go crazy after that. The part that confuses me, is rejection doesn't bother me, it never has I just shrug it off and move on, but for som e reason the girls end up acting crazy, there's only one girl who ever rejected me, that I can see my self as possibly causing some of the problems.

Few examples.

Girl A I asked out, she said no I said ok, started to leave then she flips out listing of reasons, I keep saying it's ok she keeps going on, and later texts me for hours about it.

Girl B I asked out, she said no, I was surprised she said no because her best-friend had been trying too hook us up so I asked her why, she explained, I never brought it up again. We had several classes together and she has been a mega bitch to me ever since even her best friend has asked her what the hell is wrong with her.

Girl C I hooked up with, but then she didn't want a relationship, I was fine with it, but she said she'd still give me the BJ she'd promised since we were interrupted by her roommate the night before, then she says she won't but wants to hang out I say ok, then she backs out of hanging out, and then accuses me of stalking her.

These are just a few of several examples. I don't get it, they reject me I acept the rejection and then they flip out on me.

is it normal for girls to behave like this?

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    Believe it or not, there aren't many men like you. Rejection hurts a lot of other guys like you wont believe, causing them to react in various ways from annoying to dangerous. Persistence, stalking, angry outburst, rape, you name it. What you experienced were the different "precautions" we girls take to avoid problems with men who can't handle rejection (which is really interesting to observe, because it all depends on maturity and personality).

    Girl A: She's a people pleaser from what it sounds like. Going by the actions she took, she probably assumed that you were devastated when she said no; she felt bad hurting your feelings. So to make you feel better, she list off reasons to keep you from going home sad, like a long version of, "It's not you! It's me, this, and that!" (Sadly, her rejecting men this way will give those crazy guys hope and put her in more bad situations, but that's her problem to overcome.)

    Girl B: Typical immature girl reaction. Basically, she really doesn't want to further your feelings for her, so bitch mode is turned on to force you to lose interest. (This will cause her to lose a lot of male friends, but that's her problem.)

    Girl C: She's overthinking everything and changing her mind often, and probably thought you were obsess with her even though you simply just wanted to resume the friendship. (Her overthinking and ready to call "Stalker!" is a bad sign. Avoid women like this, because you don't want to end up in court over rape, because she change her mind about the relationship between you two.)

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    • JonathanOo
      6 years ago

      Good analysis :D

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  • EquityRap
    7 years ago

    U sound real confident and straight forward. Nice. These girls today just wanna play games. They ain't ready for ur directness and say no, but in essence it's on them now cuz they rejected u.... so they're made at themselves now. This is what they do.

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  • cactusart
    7 years ago

    21 y/o woman here.. These girls you tried dating aren't very mature but, maybe I can give you some insight.

    Girl A: Women can sometimes overreact when men have a short response to something important they say. I am not saying it's okay for her to have done that, but that is probably why. She might have thought the short response meant you were very upset and she was attempting to explain herself but it just went south.

    Girl B: She felt awkward she rejected you and it came out in a bad way. She didn't know how to act around you even though you seem to have taken it well. Her not knowing how to act = rude behavior. (Again, not acceptable)

    Girl C: This girl even has me confused. I think she maybe just wasn't ready for what she was getting herself into. She probably thought she was ready for either an emotional or physical relationship with someone, but she just wasn't. She should have explained this and I am sorry she called you a stalker. That's just harsh.

    I would say it might be "normal" for younger girls/women because they may not be emotionally mature. However, you do not deserve this treatment from any age woman. You will find someone who is on your maturity level, it just may take some time.

    Hope I helped.

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