Age gaps in young relationships
Context:
-I am 18, and the girl in question is 16.
-I am not super religious, and the girl is the pastor's kid at my friend's church(for this reason along with age I am apprehensive).
-She has shown many signs of being "into me" that she does not give to the other guys I'm friends with. Yes, I acknowledge the possibility that my conclusion that she's into me could be wrong.
-I go to my friend's youth group once a week, and thus see her once a week, because I like the people there.
-I am very hesitant to give her signs of liking her because I fear that 1. it will get awkward, and 2. people will think I'm a creep.
Okay, so on to the question. Should I try and date her? It makes me uncomfortable that she's so much younger than me.
She's never had a job, doesn't know what she wants out of life, and probably hasn't formed her own beliefs on many topics like I have. Hell, I'm still forming my opinions. Every time I have a conversation with a friend about politics or whatever social issue, I change an opinion about something.
She knows basically nothing about me, and I her. She likes Christian music, and I like most genres that aren't that. I'm a 9-5 apprentice in a blue-collar trade, and she's never had a job. She's mature for her age, and I am for mine, but the numbers matter.
I don't know what to do.
You're a weirdo if you date her | 1 | |
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