"quiet" boyfriend hardly ever asks to see me. is this normal?
Hi guys, I'm dating a guy who claims to be an introvert. I see him only once or twice a week and give him plenty of time.
However, he shows low affection, doesn't ever really go out of his way, and is often very busy. I did bring up that I felt detached and he genuinely seemed to care.
One thing is that he goes on trips with his buddies all the time, and doesn't seem to remember me. I always send him on his way & am happy for him, but wish we had more time together.
One person told me that introverts sometimes do want to spend time w/partner, and another said only once a week.
I am a bright, energetic person, and I feel like I'm too "much" for him. It makes me extremely sad. I am always offering fun things to do, wanting to talk, and he just doesn't meet my energy. I am usually always smiling/laughing, but feel very down when I'm with him. He is usually quiet and on the computer. Maybe he needs a meek, confident, quiet girl and it breaks my heart.
I love my personality but it hurts to think of him with someone else better. I do love him.