30 y.o. black guy with short penis, lowself esteem. help please?

I am seeking help with this issue and help with my self esteem. I know this wont get many replies since its not funny or trolling ...so if you give a reply id appreciate your honest best answer. Thanks

Why does my race matter? Women expect me to have a big one, and i didnt even realize how big regular non porn star blk guys junks were...like damn, what did I do to deserve this lol

Main issue is this: im not a bad looking guy so i get legit chances to have sex, its just that when i get down to it, i almost dont even want to...if they walk out after seeing it...i mean wouldnt that destroy your self esteem or do I just need to not take it personal? (...its hard)

Thank you so much for the the replies

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  • Personally I don't care much about length, I'm all about the girth. Girth is what makes me scream. Length is almost irrelevant, so long as it's long enough to get inside there.

    Anyway, size doesn't matter as much as you think. A lot of women (myself included) find they have their most intense orgasms from oral, or fingers. It's also about how attracted you are to each other, and whether or not you create the right mood.

    Basically what I'm saying is that having a big dick and being good in bed are two very different things.


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  • I bet the girl you're gonna sleep with has seen many smaller than yours. Dudes with small dicks dont do amateur or pro porn because they're worried about it. Therefore you dont see them but lil dicks are out there bruh

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  • first of porn isnt real dude im black and it annoys the hell out of me that some people think all blacks have horse dongs you can easily tell that shit is fake. second how short are we talking? for a long time I thought I had a short dick turns out six.one inches is average and the majority of women I have been with have never said it was small. now if your four to three inches then I can see why your feeling down even then bro you shouldnt let it get to you because simply having a big dick dose not mean good sex.

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    • I always thought black ppl had horse dongs too lol. This is news to me. This short black dude at school fucked this one chic I knew and she was talking about how massive it was and I was like damn if that 5foot3 dude was packin thag I bet a 6foot3 dude would be packing some serious firepower

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      • lets be real a lot of women will exaggerate things I know this because some women I have been with claimed my dick was really big. six inches is average at best. is my cock thick? yes but its far from massive. also from my understanding if you have a horse dick you wont be able to do anal or other things and I love to get into a ladys ass if she is into it.

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    • Yes!

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  • It's imperative that you eat pussy like a champ! I also think that a brotha that is skilled in cunnilingus is much more sexually attractive than a guy with a big dong. I honestly think penetration can be overrated especially if they guy doesn't care about pleasing his lady. Big dongs don't really impress me.

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  • Just be really good at oral.

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  • As a person who is equally endowed as yourself do what humans do when their hands arent enough to get a task done. Use tools. Vibrators, extender dildos (good if you have the length but not the girth to get the job done). As well as get awesome at using your fingers and mouth.

    Just dont be a guy that finishes in 15 seconds and women will understand the endowment. They feel the same way about their breasts and vaginal tightness.

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