Spiritually:
Someone I can pray with, and share things about God with, and they understand what I mean, and vice versa. I would love to learn about God from them. I'd like to be able to explore and share their traditions without betraying my own, so they would need to be compatible (though not identical). If they aren't interested in exploring and sharing my traditions in return, there should be a good reason why not.
Emotionally/Socially:
Likes intellectual conversations (in any and all fields), wonders aloud a lot, is articulate and educated, is a good judge of character, has nice parents and dependable guy friends, is not a perfectionist or a tidy freak but not a slob, is forgiving towards people but well-boundaried, is supportive towards people with mental health issues (but again, is well-boundaried and doesn't make their problems into his problems), doesn't judge people for their failures, isn't prone to snobbery or 'reverse snobbery', has a vision I can get behind and support him with, doesn't trivialise my creative projects or ideas, doesn't invalidate or minimise either my successes or my failures, has a sense of common decency and fairness that goes beyond whether you're 'in love' or not, treats me as heaving equal rights and dignity with him IN PRACTICE and regards my emotions as worthy of his time and attempts to understand how they work; is willing to acknowledge and work on his own emotional issues; is willing to be emotionally vulnerable with me as the relationship develops and to have intimate and/or hard conversations.
Physically:
Slender/normal or athletic (but without big muscles), delicate body type, blue eyes, blonde or mousey hair, slightly feminine looks, an expressive face, soft skin, no facial hair, lots of head hair. I want to save my virginity for marriage but after that, I want sex to be a big part of our life. Irrespective of what his genitals are like, he'll need to be willing to communicate with me to find a way of expressing physical love that we can both enjoy and learn how to improve on over time. Sorry, my tastes are really specific. Height isn't an issue.
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I've already said on another post, but...
Spiritually:
Someone I can pray with, and share things about God with, and they understand what I mean, and vice versa. I would love to learn about God from them. I'd like to be able to explore and share their traditions without betraying my own, so they would need to be compatible (though not identical). If they aren't interested in exploring and sharing my traditions in return, there should be a good reason why not.
Emotionally/Socially:
Likes intellectual conversations (in any and all fields), wonders aloud a lot, is articulate and educated, is a good judge of character, has nice parents and dependable guy friends, is not a perfectionist or a tidy freak but not a slob, is forgiving towards people but well-boundaried, is supportive towards people with mental health issues (but again, is well-boundaried and doesn't make their problems into his problems), doesn't judge people for their failures, isn't prone to snobbery or 'reverse snobbery', has a vision I can get behind and support him with, doesn't trivialise my creative projects or ideas, doesn't invalidate or minimise either my successes or my failures, has a sense of common decency and fairness that goes beyond whether you're 'in love' or not, treats me as heaving equal rights and dignity with him IN PRACTICE and regards my emotions as worthy of his time and attempts to understand how they work; is willing to acknowledge and work on his own emotional issues; is willing to be emotionally vulnerable with me as the relationship develops and to have intimate and/or hard conversations.
Physically:
Slender/normal or athletic (but without big muscles), delicate body type, blue eyes, blonde or mousey hair, slightly feminine looks, an expressive face, soft skin, no facial hair, lots of head hair. I want to save my virginity for marriage but after that, I want sex to be a big part of our life. Irrespective of what his genitals are like, he'll need to be willing to communicate with me to find a way of expressing physical love that we can both enjoy and learn how to improve on over time. Sorry, my tastes are really specific. Height isn't an issue.