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Explain what kind of personality and build is your type when it comes to dating or hooking up.
What type of girl or man do you like?
Dating and hooking up are completely different standards.
Hooking up it's all about physical stuff with a little bit of personality. Stuff like appearance, clothes, size, hair, legs, butt, boobs, smile, and eyes. They have to at least be able to hold a little bit of conversation and make me smile.
Dating or long term, it becomes all about personality with bonus point for looks. Hard to be with distractingly ugly. I've had some pretty good relationships with people I never thought I would. Getting to know them and a great personality can override first impressions.
There's an old saying that would apply to any relationship I want to last long term. They need to be somewhat of a prince, princess, or Angel, on the street, but a hooker, gigolo, boy toy, or slut, in the sheets.
Life's to short not to have fun.
Responsible.
Funny.
Pretty face.
Fair.
Not a shameless hoe.
Body shape? Average maybe with curves.
If its a girl that I wanna settle down with she Gotta be able to get along w me. Be attractive enough. Share my values. Preferably excell in my weaknesses so that she can help me and vice versa. I got lucky with my wife she can remember birthdays and keep up with everythingg shes super organized. Would be awful if I had a wife that sucked at that shit too we'd be a mess
Only two things:
1) When it's a fitting personality
2) I don't mind about their race and whatnot so as long I can be together with that person
Petite with a big booty. I don't care about boob size really so long as they're perky. Personality wise I want someone kind and loving and who doesn't moan at me too much or have super neurotic tendencies.
Not overweight, not anorexic, not an amputee, not bad hygiene, no smoking, no alcohol drinking
Not genderqueer, not queer, not polyamorous
As for personality, idk
Basically, what would be considered normal
I don't really have a type. When we talk about personality I don't care if he is shy or loud. I just want to come along with that person and have similar views on life. For looks I also don't have a type I really like blonde hair and blue eyes but every other hair color or race or wathever could be beautiful. The only important thing for me is that he is taller than me and that I don't like very muscular or very fat guys. Yeah and should be my age or a bit older than me. If I know someone a bit I just now when they're not my type,but I can't really explain why (I think it's because of different views and lifestyles)
I don't really have a type as such, but my boyfriend is a very respectable and nice person, and I like that about him. He's just very calm and cool. And handsome. Very handsome.
Hourglass shape with a huge ass. Should be entertain herself without thinking i am the only person in her life after few months of dating.
Average height average weight so like 5'9-5'11 and healthy weight not too fat not too skinny, handsome, brown hair, light eyes, kind, intelligent, somewhat nerdy, funny, humble and loyal
I used to think of women mostly but only sometimes men, but i've beeen thinking a lot more about guys these days sexually these days for some reason. I can't say for sure what i'd be down for in a partner because it might change over time, but if it's a dude he should be:
1. Either slwnder or muscular, but toned/cut either way.
2. Uncut dicks are hotter to look at than cut ones, but id compromise
3. Good bone structure in the face, angular jawline, can have some amount of facial hair but not really a lot.
4. Have hair, color doeant matter
5. Ideally be taller than me.
I'd like it id he also had a really take-charge attitude and could be more decisive than me, since i'm the exact oppositw. Assertiveness would be a turn on.
I'm willing to tolerate a wider variety of apearances and body shapes in women, though most of thwm i dont find that attractive. Assertiveness is still a plus, but i'm kinda bad at the whole emotionally-available thing so many of them seem to be into. They're just more confusing to me at times.
If they're going to be religious, it helps not to be to conservative or pushy about it.
Brunette curls.
High abstract intelligence.
Expressive kissing.
Adventurous attitude.
Investment minded.
Myers-Briggs T. (takes action based on thoughts rather than feelings)
I'm a resilient guy. These attributes are the best predictors of a personality that my strengths interact well with to establish intimate dynamics, quiet spontaneity, and values I can mesh with to get traction for both of us.
I've already said on another post, but...
Spiritually:
Someone I can pray with, and share things about God with, and they understand what I mean, and vice versa. I would love to learn about God from them. I'd like to be able to explore and share their traditions without betraying my own, so they would need to be compatible (though not identical). If they aren't interested in exploring and sharing my traditions in return, there should be a good reason why not.
Emotionally/Socially:
Likes intellectual conversations (in any and all fields), wonders aloud a lot, is articulate and educated, is a good judge of character, has nice parents and dependable guy friends, is not a perfectionist or a tidy freak but not a slob, is forgiving towards people but well-boundaried, is supportive towards people with mental health issues (but again, is well-boundaried and doesn't make their problems into his problems), doesn't judge people for their failures, isn't prone to snobbery or 'reverse snobbery', has a vision I can get behind and support him with, doesn't trivialise my creative projects or ideas, doesn't invalidate or minimise either my successes or my failures, has a sense of common decency and fairness that goes beyond whether you're 'in love' or not, treats me as heaving equal rights and dignity with him IN PRACTICE and regards my emotions as worthy of his time and attempts to understand how they work; is willing to acknowledge and work on his own emotional issues; is willing to be emotionally vulnerable with me as the relationship develops and to have intimate and/or hard conversations.
Physically:
Slender/normal or athletic (but without big muscles), delicate body type, blue eyes, blonde or mousey hair, slightly feminine looks, an expressive face, soft skin, no facial hair, lots of head hair. I want to save my virginity for marriage but after that, I want sex to be a big part of our life. Irrespective of what his genitals are like, he'll need to be willing to communicate with me to find a way of expressing physical love that we can both enjoy and learn how to improve on over time. Sorry, my tastes are really specific. Height isn't an issue.
innocent, adorable, cute, shy, kawaii, who blushes easily.
Those kinds of features are pretty much non-existent, so I settled with my kawaii tornado husband. He's a tornado and he has a kawaii and cute little face
Emotionally? Someone who's the complete opposite of me that somehow likes me.
Sexually? Practically any woman under 5'10 between the ages of 18-28
Intelligent, its clear she has values, and its clear that she has plans to become or do something...
Then, does our personality and values match..
Finally, can she at least provide emotional support for my main goals in life, and can I provide her emotional support for her goals in life?
I’ve never really had a set person in mind. More if our personalities jive, then I’ll find them attractive.