Your s.o./spouse shares a fantasy. do you indulge him/her?

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Your spouse/S.O. is comfortable enough with you and your relationship to be open and honest about his/her fantasies. Do you have a duty to indulge them? Are there basic rules you have for this scenario (please "comment", if so)? Any fantasies that are no-go (beyond the very obvious)? Do you think it adds to the relationship?

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  • (.)(.)boobies
    9 years ago | pl

    As long as it was private, didn’t put me in any danger, and didn't conflict with my moral priciples, then I would be open to trying it with them.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago | pl

    I'm not doing anything I don't want to do. Just because someone tells me about something doesn't mean I have any sort of duty to them.

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  • KingRabbit
    9 years ago | pl

    Duty? I have no problem indulging in fantasies. But i would never call it a duty. I am happy to fulfill a fantasy, if possible. This is why we have a "safe word"

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago | pl

    If both (or all) parties are okay with it then there is no problem.

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  • EccentricWeird
    9 years ago | pl

    What the fuck is an S.O.? You mean like the gas station?

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago | pl

    No limits but only with my current lover. I wouldn't be this open with other lovers. I don't feel like it's my duty, I actually enjoy playing out all of our fantasies no matter how unusual.

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  • agonyaunt
    7 years ago | pl

    No definitely not just use the missionary position every time you have intercourse and seek faith in the Lord Jesus but if you do it can you record it and send a copy to me @ the Vatican love the pope

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  • thebird
    9 years ago | pl

    As long as it's not creepy or weird like wanting to shift on my chest because that is fucking disturbed

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  • SometimesNaive
    9 years ago | pl

    The "no one gets hurt" thing is a little... Eh. Like what if her fantasy was painful? Instead of doing something heavy like slicing her open you could smack her around or spank her or bite her hard. That's still indulging. But it has to be at level that you are both comfortable with. You cant just jump straight into these things. You have to build up to them.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago | pl

    I'd never even get together with someone before I knew most of their sexual preferences and they knew mine. Not fun when they are not mutual!

    This said: I love to fulfil my partners fantasies as long as I am apart of it ( I'd not let him go fuck some chick without me)

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  • megadriver
    9 years ago | pl

    As long as it's sensible, than yes, I will be happy to indulge in my girlfriend's fantasies.

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  • dom180
    9 years ago | pl

    I have a good idea of what I really like, what I am comfortable with doing and what I would never do. So it depends which category their request falls under. I would always appreciate the honesty, but you never have a duty to do what someone else wants just because they were honest about it.

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