Would you tell the guy you're pregnant if you're going to get an abortion?

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  • No in general, and very definitely no fucking way if the sperm donor was "some random guy".

    Telling him is just begging for all sorts of drama, and it's a traumatic enough experience as it is.

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    • it could encourage him to not have unsafe sex and help create this problem all over again as I'm sure it's done for her

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      • That isn't a totally ridiculous hope, but I doubt it. I guess I must be more cynical than you about people in general and men in particular.

        OP doesn't say if a condom was used, but I assume so. There are guys who secretly remove condoms during sex or surreptitiously damage them so they'll tear because they get off on the idea of making the woman pregnant. It's psychopathic behaviour, but there are lots of covert psychopaths around.

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