A few years isn't anything. The fact that you are considering this so early in time(and not for THAT long at that) makes me question what your intentions truly are. Just imagine the emotional relief and happiness felt of being united with the person you love when soldiers were coming back from wars lasting 6+ years in the past, except minus the PTSD.
You two love eachother and have plans after you two can get back within proximity. The fact that you two are so happy and lovey for eachother is just making you feel depressed because you feel it's just hurting eachother being away. You'd rather break up with him so he can find happiness closer to him right now, than to have him wait to be happy with you, correct?
Your wording says it all. You are trying to selflessly sacrifice your own feelings just so he can be happy. Infact if what you said is true about him also thinking it's not quite cutting it, you are both considering being selfless for one-another to find happiness. I'd consider it a tragedy if you didn't endure it and come back together. I'd say just endure it, because you'd be hard pressed to find a relationship that was strong enough to try and survive long distance over a long period.
You both went to schools to better your futures, not abandon your past.
thats all correct... I'm 99% ok with waiting but my family and friends are really pressuring me to weigh my options (and secretely) find someone else. They help me see every fault that I'm not able to see because I'm too love struck and willing to compromise. (Ie; i'm a morning person and he's a nght person, therefore gettiing him up at a reasonable time to do anything productive before the normal rush is usually out of the question).
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A few years isn't anything. The fact that you are considering this so early in time(and not for THAT long at that) makes me question what your intentions truly are. Just imagine the emotional relief and happiness felt of being united with the person you love when soldiers were coming back from wars lasting 6+ years in the past, except minus the PTSD.
You two love eachother and have plans after you two can get back within proximity. The fact that you two are so happy and lovey for eachother is just making you feel depressed because you feel it's just hurting eachother being away. You'd rather break up with him so he can find happiness closer to him right now, than to have him wait to be happy with you, correct?
Your wording says it all. You are trying to selflessly sacrifice your own feelings just so he can be happy. Infact if what you said is true about him also thinking it's not quite cutting it, you are both considering being selfless for one-another to find happiness. I'd consider it a tragedy if you didn't endure it and come back together. I'd say just endure it, because you'd be hard pressed to find a relationship that was strong enough to try and survive long distance over a long period.
You both went to schools to better your futures, not abandon your past.
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thats all correct... I'm 99% ok with waiting but my family and friends are really pressuring me to weigh my options (and secretely) find someone else. They help me see every fault that I'm not able to see because I'm too love struck and willing to compromise. (Ie; i'm a morning person and he's a nght person, therefore gettiing him up at a reasonable time to do anything productive before the normal rush is usually out of the question).
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Jesus, they are encouraging you to secretly find someone else? That's utterly disgusting.