Would you rather turn asexual or gay?

Title says it all, I’m interested to see what the straights and bi-sexuals will chose. You would just wake up tomorrow with your new sexuality.

Death is not an option.

Gay 52
Asexual 28
I’m already gay or asexual 25
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  • raisinbran

    I’ll take asexual any day. Sexuality is a mental disorder and a burden.

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      *burden for me

      Not for me are you fucking kidding me!

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  • Grunewald

    Asexual. I don't want to be interested in sex.

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    • CDmale4fem

      So you never get in the mood to play in bed and rub one out huh ? Is there a difference in sex with someone else or sex by yourself ? Or no interest even in masturbation ?

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    • Bazinga

      I thought you already were asexual.

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      • Grunewald

        If only.

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        • Bazinga

          I'm sorry. Asexuality is understandably very rare. Do you Iike to kiss? I think exquisite kissing is highly enjoyable. You could find a nice guy and try erotic kissing while you keep your pants on. It would give you a bit of relief at least.

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          • DIO

            I hate sex so much. It's way too good for it to exist. I don't like the addiction.

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    • Interesting, why not?

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      • d0esnormalmatter

        Cough cough... virgin.. cough

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        • Asexuals aren’t always virgins. The same way some gay people have disappointing straight sex before realising they’re actually gay.

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          • d0esnormalmatter

            Aspiringruth is a virgin. Which is why its grade A 100% bullshit that she "doesn't want to be interested in sex" once she has it that will change I would bet money.

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  • LloydAsher

    Gay. If I cant have fun with a preferred. I'll take the only 2nd in its place. Rather than have no place.

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  • Grunewald

    Interesting turn of logic there, Mr Ox-ford.

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  • Aethylfritha

    Asexual for sure. Im halfway there being on different meds that kill my libido. Being asexual is only a problem if you're with a partner who wants sex. Two asexuals would probably be pretty happy together.

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    • Well as we’ve currently got 12 people going asexual if this was real I could pair you all up lol.

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      • Aethylfritha

        Lol as of right now i just fake enthusiasm. Its my damn pills.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    I would rather be anything than Asexual. Sex is probably one of the best thing in life. Why would anyone who enjoys sex want to never have sex again?

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    • Aethylfritha

      Ive never enjoyed sex. Is that a good reason? Lol

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      • Nikclaire

        Why not?

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        • Aethylfritha

          You guys ive never orgasmed from sex and never had a partner who was willing to take their time. Its partly my fault as i fake orgasms. Think...i feel it would take too much effort and maybe still no orgasms.
          I only get orgasms from toys and twice, from oral. And now im on meds so that kills my libido.

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          • d0esnormalmatter

            I knew there was an explanation. Women do not get enough sexual attention it's awful.

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          • Nikclaire

            Sorry to hear that. Faking it pretty much guarantees they won't get the job done. Unless they fumble around for hours I wouldn't fake it. Best to tell someone what you want.

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      • Maybe you secretly already are gay or asexual?

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      • d0esnormalmatter

        Doing it wrong

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        • Aethylfritha

          Lol prolly

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    • LloydAsher

      Same logic as me bro.

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      • That logic appears to be winning over by 7 votes.

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        • LloydAsher

          Sex vs no sex isnt that hard of a question. If you had a I'll turn the other way option if the person was already gay then you would have an influx of people on the Inverted sexual preference.

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  • barefoot_on_the_sand

    I'm gay so I would "turn" even gayer if that's possible.

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  • GaelicPotato

    Ni u

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  • bbrown95

    I'm already pretty much asexual and feel that I miss out on so much drama and bullshit by not wanting sex and not pursuing relationships, so I'd stay the way I am.

    The only thing is that I feel some people are not very accepting of this and are always trying to convince me to try dating again and think I'm a freak for not wanting sex. However, I'm sure gay people experience a lack of acceptance from some people as well.

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    • Keep listening to your gut. No point in forcing it if you’re not feeling it.

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  • Well, no, because in my scenario they would be magically turned gay.

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  • mikeymonty

    I love sex too much to ever be asexual, so if I had to pick from the choices you name, I'd rather be gay. It would require developing a sexual attraction to other men, which would require an act of God, but if that were to happen, I'd be okay with it.

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  • PleaseTalkToMe

    Wtf sexuality is fluid so this post is a troll

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    • Sexuality is fluid for some and stable for others. For the sake of this post assume it would be stable for you.

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  • ellnell

    I dont care, but probably gay because I think its hard to find a partner who would agree to no sex unless you have an open relationship and thats a no thanks from me pal.

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  • Iloverobots

    I’m already asexual, I don’t want to have sex with anyone.

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  • MrMercury24

    Much rather fuck a dude in the ass than never fuck again. All I'm sayin.

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    • Looks like you’re not alone there.

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    I would so rather be gay!

    Part of me wishes I was bisexual already. I don't find the male body or gay sex appealing however I know that if I did, that would increase sexual partner options and sexual variety, both of which I thrive off of currently as heterosexual.

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  • Tingles18

    Asexual. I'm too horny all the time, even though I have enough sex with my fiancé. It's like 2-4 times a week. It's like more than enough.

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    • But you would then give yourself the reverse problem of no longer finding them attractive.

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      • Tingles18

        But I would still love him.

        Asexuals can fall and be in love. It's the aromantics that don't fall in love.

        Or did you mean to ask that would I rather turn into someone who romantically likes the same sex or doesn't like anyone romantically?

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        • I guess you could still love him romantically but you wouldn’t want to have sex with him anymore.

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          • Tingles18

            That would be okay to both of us then. :P

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  • Tealights

    Asexual. I'm not interested in women, and it'll be hard for me to fake it.

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      You would be interested if you woke up gay as the post says

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      • Tealights

        If I can remember my life before that point, it'll feel weird.

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        • d0esnormalmatter

          Yeah I suppose I assumed you wouldn't based on the question but maybe you would idk.

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          • I assumed you would remember your old sexuality. But fair enough I didn’t clarify so assume whichever you want.

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            • d0esnormalmatter

              Okay buddy good to know

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          • Tealights

            You just want see women make out with each other.

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            • d0esnormalmatter

              Lol maybe not but I wouldn't complain.

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    Gay because I'd still want a partner to love and it'd be much easier finding another gay guy than finding another asexual person. Either way though it'd really suck that my porn collection I've been building up for years would become useless.

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  • lovespurts

    It's a very interesting question. I consider myself mostly straight but with some bi curious mixed in. So rather than ever be completely uninterested in sex (I can't imagine), I would likely choose to be gay only if the guy I get is not super flamboyant and gross. If he is young, clean, masculine behaving and respectful then I could see myself taking on the role of his "wife" and keeping his cock well cared for and keeping his balls healthy, productive and well drained. My mouth would be available to him 24/7 any time he has an erection and desires to ejaculate. He will have the satisfaction of blowjobs on demand and I will provide him with a warm and wet mouth to blow his load into. Then we can grab a couple of beers and watch the game.

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    • Sounds like a picture of domestic bliss.

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      • lovespurts

        You're right!

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  • rocketdave

    Being bi doubles your chance of a date!

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    • Bi is not an option here.

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    • Nikclaire

      Lots of baht guarantees one!

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      Nope that's retarded. Less than half of guys would date lesbians and less than half of women would date fags. Unless of course you commit a rather reprehensible lie of omission.

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      • rocketdave

        No it's not retarded, many couples are bi and threesomes, moresomes with all sexes. Don't limit what you try, you might like it!

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        • True, but back to the question I’m assuming this means you would become gay?

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          • rocketdave

            Bi is not gay, I also meet with couples and have done everything to each other. I got into through pure curiosity, I bummed a few ladies then with couples the man wanted to feel what it was like and so did I. The ladies all liked double penetration and so did I, the membrane between is very thin and your cocks are rubbing together.

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            • I know you’re not gay, I meant in my scenario you would turn gay instead of asexual.

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        • d0esnormalmatter

          How many? What percent of couples are bi and threesomes? I don't know a SINGLE one. If it's less than half, then I'm right.

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          • rocketdave

            All depends on the circles you move in and your life style, what I consider normal you may consider decadent and immoral but that doesn't make any of "right" or "wrong" just different.

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            • d0esnormalmatter

              I'm not talking about right or wrong. Threesomes aren't wrong, being bi isn't wrong, I don't think any of this is wrong. Are you aware I have had over 15 sexual partners and have done kinky shit like bondage, gags, forced shitting and peeing, ect? I don't think a lot of stuff is wrong okay.

              The case I'm making is that being bi does not mean one is twice as likely to get a date. My reason is because the opposite sex person who is a potential date is likely to be turned off by the fact that you also fuck the other gender.

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          • Nikclaire

            Your math logic is incorrect. Let's say 40% of people, men or women would go bi under the right cirumstances. You would have a chance to date 40% of either sex or 40% of 100% of the population.

            If you you only go for straight sex you only get a dating pool of 60% of men or 60% of women. 60% of half the population or roughly 30% of people.

            30% is less than 40%.

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  • Mammal-lover

    Go lesbo I suppose. Better than asexual

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  • Nikclaire

    As a bisexual I already consider myself gay so the question is moot.

    Regardless I could never go without sex.

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    • TerriAngel

      Nikclaire
      fuckin nailed it.

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    • Jennifer21

      I’m with you!

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    • Bi to homo, fair enough.

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      • Nikclaire

        Lesbo not homo haha

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        • DIO

          We should definitely have angry sex.

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