Useless. Here's why....In situations that I've felt useless, it did positive things for me....inspired me to learn something, try harder, do more...I just look at it as a way and reason to improve. It motivates me.
Getting used is a dumb situation that you can't un-do and also can't turn positive so easily and it can spawn a lot of negative things, such as a pattern of getting used, depression, feelings of worthlessness (that don't go away as easily as feeling useless), feeling stupid, regret...etc. Used people generally feel (get) used a lot, it's not usually a one time, or rare, thing.
That's how I personally feel, of course everyone looks at it differently.
Would you rather feel used or useless?
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Useless. Here's why....In situations that I've felt useless, it did positive things for me....inspired me to learn something, try harder, do more...I just look at it as a way and reason to improve. It motivates me.
Getting used is a dumb situation that you can't un-do and also can't turn positive so easily and it can spawn a lot of negative things, such as a pattern of getting used, depression, feelings of worthlessness (that don't go away as easily as feeling useless), feeling stupid, regret...etc. Used people generally feel (get) used a lot, it's not usually a one time, or rare, thing.
That's how I personally feel, of course everyone looks at it differently.