So there's nothing other than leaving him that could improve your life? Your raising HIS kids? They're not yours? Why would your family hate you if you left him?
Why would your friends n family hate you for leaving him? Surely anyone who cares about you would want you to be happy! You can't be in a relationship for anyone but yourself!
They blame you for leaving, for making everyone miserable, for dumping such a "good guy" and for whatever reason they think he's the only chance you have at ever getting married.
I was in a very similar situation, my family slated me for leaving the 'good guy', in the end I went back to him for all the wrong reasons but we made a lot of changes and I fell in love with him 9years after we started our relationship! Something's are worth the work but something's you know will never change and if your not into it you've gotta get out! Change is always hard especially without the support of the people you love but it the end you get one life and its yours!
Would you rather be miserable, or have everyone hate you?
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So there's nothing other than leaving him that could improve your life? Your raising HIS kids? They're not yours? Why would your family hate you if you left him?
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Actually they're no one's kids, they don't exist yet. I mean in the future, staying with him means that's all you'll do.
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Why would your friends n family hate you for leaving him? Surely anyone who cares about you would want you to be happy! You can't be in a relationship for anyone but yourself!
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You would think, wouldn't you?
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But why?
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They blame you for leaving, for making everyone miserable, for dumping such a "good guy" and for whatever reason they think he's the only chance you have at ever getting married.
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I was in a very similar situation, my family slated me for leaving the 'good guy', in the end I went back to him for all the wrong reasons but we made a lot of changes and I fell in love with him 9years after we started our relationship! Something's are worth the work but something's you know will never change and if your not into it you've gotta get out! Change is always hard especially without the support of the people you love but it the end you get one life and its yours!