Would you rather be dumped for your body or personality?

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  • Personality is more changeable, for the most part, or maybe just more personally enjoyable for me to work on. I would likely see being dumped due to my personality as constructive criticism.

    I would get over a person who dumped me because of my body very quickly, but I have a feeling their judgments would linger and cause a little insecurity, depending on what they specifically didn't like.

    Unfortunately people rarely state what they specifically dislike about either during a break up to save feelings, although sometimes it's not really necessary. Why say, "I see you as more of a friend... with a small dick and giant Buddha belly" when you can just leave out the harsh blows about their physique. I can't really justify withholding criticism about someone's personality though, especially if it's something that will likely repel their future interests as well.

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