Id give him a second chance. But that's it. My ex husband is bipolar and has some other issues. It started with him just throwing things slamming walls etc in his moods. He would apologize go to his psych take his meds for a bit then id start noticing he wasn't taking them steady then one time during a argument he kicked me. I was pissed but let it go cause it had never happened before then the next time he blocked my path in a argument and I tried to shove passed him and he broke my ribs. He cried and apologized too and I was stupid at that point with forgiveness and took him back next time he threw me across the room into a glass door. ...so yeah...forgiveness can be a good thing but not to the point of stupidity (Like me ) and id make sure he is definitely definitely taking his medicine. My ex was a great guy medicated. Unmedicated he was very very scary. Please be careful in whatever you decide. Sometimes these things can work out and its only once and hopefully this was a good wake up call for your guy. But seriously if anything close to this happens again id seriously think twice about being forgiving a second time. Look out for yourself. Good luck.
I am so sorry you had to go through that. I am going to stay with him, but I know now to be more cautious about our relationship. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me.
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Id give him a second chance. But that's it. My ex husband is bipolar and has some other issues. It started with him just throwing things slamming walls etc in his moods. He would apologize go to his psych take his meds for a bit then id start noticing he wasn't taking them steady then one time during a argument he kicked me. I was pissed but let it go cause it had never happened before then the next time he blocked my path in a argument and I tried to shove passed him and he broke my ribs. He cried and apologized too and I was stupid at that point with forgiveness and took him back next time he threw me across the room into a glass door. ...so yeah...forgiveness can be a good thing but not to the point of stupidity (Like me ) and id make sure he is definitely definitely taking his medicine. My ex was a great guy medicated. Unmedicated he was very very scary. Please be careful in whatever you decide. Sometimes these things can work out and its only once and hopefully this was a good wake up call for your guy. But seriously if anything close to this happens again id seriously think twice about being forgiving a second time. Look out for yourself. Good luck.
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I am so sorry you had to go through that. I am going to stay with him, but I know now to be more cautious about our relationship. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me.