I would forgive my mom if she would put forth the effort to build a better relationship with me along with accepting responsibility for her actions. Even to this day as a grown adult man I still suffer from self-esteem/self-confidence problems as a result of her verbal, physical and psychological abuse that I endured as a child. Not only that, it's also likely her fault that I have ADD and OCD (Which are disorders attributed to a growing child's exposure to Hostile Environments).
As of right now my relationship with her is on thin ice. I'm actually typing up a Notice of Separation to possibly give to my mom later on to disown her. Even if I gave her that letter, it doesn't mean that it has to be permanent. I'm a reasonable person and I'm willing to give my mom a chance.
She has to put forth some effort on her part to make it work otherwise she's just proving to me, herself and others that she doesn't care enough about our relationship.
Would you forgive a parent/s for making you who you are ?
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I would forgive my mom if she would put forth the effort to build a better relationship with me along with accepting responsibility for her actions. Even to this day as a grown adult man I still suffer from self-esteem/self-confidence problems as a result of her verbal, physical and psychological abuse that I endured as a child. Not only that, it's also likely her fault that I have ADD and OCD (Which are disorders attributed to a growing child's exposure to Hostile Environments).
As of right now my relationship with her is on thin ice. I'm actually typing up a Notice of Separation to possibly give to my mom later on to disown her. Even if I gave her that letter, it doesn't mean that it has to be permanent. I'm a reasonable person and I'm willing to give my mom a chance.
She has to put forth some effort on her part to make it work otherwise she's just proving to me, herself and others that she doesn't care enough about our relationship.