Its most irritating when the uncontrolled emotional outbursts come out at home or worse in public.
Plus you are forever looking out for them they don't do something stupid. Its not like looking after a kid, these mental issues people can NOT learn.
I thought it would be all so wonderful, she was slim, young, friendly, reasonably attractive, and full or life. Who cares about those minor emotional outbursts (anywhere!) and the fact that there was just no intelligence at all.
But then as the days went on, it was the little things. Like once I asked how much is a house and land worth? And she said $1000. I said no, a little more than that!
And if you watch a movie like Titanic, and ask so what did you think, she may say something ridiculous like, I didn't get it, or it was funny! What? Am I alone here? generally most people cried over this true story! I mean people died! Usually at which time she'd run out crying or screaming how I'm so mean!
I noticed one night she stormed up the street upset, leaving her own house. I thought to myself, normal, she's obviously had a fight with someone there.
I asked what happened and they explained you (me) told her to F off today, so she feels she's been used!
? Say what? I didn't say F off to her (quite obviously I know she's emotional/mentally unstuck, I'm not going to give her any ammo. I TOLD her that I had things to do today, and was late getting out right at that moment she came over. Therefore, sorry you have to go, not today! 5 mins later I myself was gone.
Quite obviously this is the worst thing in the world for her, and she doesn't understand!
I say DON'T do it.
Yes sounded like a wonderful idea! Pretty girl, a little mentally challenged, ALL good.
Nooooooo, you are either going to rip your own hair out, or die in embarrassment of her public tantrums. There is no controlling them, they will not listen to reason, and you will be eventually seen as the bad guy, no matter how patient you are!
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I seriously advise against it.
Its most irritating when the uncontrolled emotional outbursts come out at home or worse in public.
Plus you are forever looking out for them they don't do something stupid. Its not like looking after a kid, these mental issues people can NOT learn.
I thought it would be all so wonderful, she was slim, young, friendly, reasonably attractive, and full or life. Who cares about those minor emotional outbursts (anywhere!) and the fact that there was just no intelligence at all.
But then as the days went on, it was the little things. Like once I asked how much is a house and land worth? And she said $1000. I said no, a little more than that!
And if you watch a movie like Titanic, and ask so what did you think, she may say something ridiculous like, I didn't get it, or it was funny! What? Am I alone here? generally most people cried over this true story! I mean people died! Usually at which time she'd run out crying or screaming how I'm so mean!
I noticed one night she stormed up the street upset, leaving her own house. I thought to myself, normal, she's obviously had a fight with someone there.
I asked what happened and they explained you (me) told her to F off today, so she feels she's been used!
? Say what? I didn't say F off to her (quite obviously I know she's emotional/mentally unstuck, I'm not going to give her any ammo. I TOLD her that I had things to do today, and was late getting out right at that moment she came over. Therefore, sorry you have to go, not today! 5 mins later I myself was gone.
Quite obviously this is the worst thing in the world for her, and she doesn't understand!
I say DON'T do it.
Yes sounded like a wonderful idea! Pretty girl, a little mentally challenged, ALL good.
Nooooooo, you are either going to rip your own hair out, or die in embarrassment of her public tantrums. There is no controlling them, they will not listen to reason, and you will be eventually seen as the bad guy, no matter how patient you are!
It is not fun. Its WORK.