Would you drive 5 hours away for best sex ever with ex?

She said she had to go sleep. I joked "But but... All I want is you for one whole night. That's all I ask <crying emoticon>" She knows I was implying sex. I am a straight up dude who doesnt hide his intentions.

And she said "Come see me."

I know. She didnt say sex. But whenever we have met it has always resulted in sex. We have this insane chemistry, and the sex with her has always been amazing. Having being broken up for many months. It will only be better. She now lives 5 hours away in another state. I would never spend my life with her, and she knows it, though might secretly still be hoping.

Would you go?

Im a guy. Yes 57
Im a guy. Nope 24
Im a girl. Yes 23
Im a girl. Nope 15
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Comments ( 31 )
  • TimmyTheTurtle

    i wouldnt drive 1 hour for sex.. bitch, you come to me.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Tell it, Turtle!

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    • wistfulmaiden

      took the words outta me mouf.

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  • Freedom_

    Holding onto the past will tear you apart. You are playing a game that no one is going to win, hoarding feelings that should have been let go. The sex feels so good because it is so wrong and it is taking its toll on both of you.

    Despite your honesty, it's likely that you are leading her on in some way - you admitted that you suspect she expects more, yet you still would choose to put your own immediate gratification above personal growth for you and her.

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  • LizardSkin

    I think the dude's who get lead around by their dicks are shameful. It's like a dirty newspaper cartoon.. starring you.

    And men wonder why these women have emotional dominance over us. People like this OP.

    To quote the 40 year old virgin.. "You gotta stop putting the pussy on a pedestal"

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    • Freedom_

      Wow, like, can I suck your cock?

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      • LizardSkin

        I like women but thanks for the offer. =/

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        • Freedom_

          I have boobs.

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          • LizardSkin

            In that case come on over.

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  • dom180

    Not for an ex. It might be worth it for any other sort of person.

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  • iEatZombies_

    Apparently the sex is it worth it to you. Unless you think you could get something that's pretty good within those next days and you aren't interested in the quality, it's a good idea. In the right situation, the five hour drive alone could be nice. I've walked five hours with no destination just to relieve stress. Your idea seems even more stress relieving.

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    • anti-hero

      Lemme ask you... have you ever been coast to coast?

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  • Fall_leaves

    Depends why did you breakup?

    Personally no, I wouldn't drive 5hrs for sex seems sort of desperate. Can't you find someone better than your ex that you see no future with, to have sex with?

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  • thegypsysailor

    Hell, I sailed from Palma de Mallorca to the Caribbean (4200 miles, about 7 weeks) one year to meet up with an old flame for a bit of fun. 5 hours is nothing.

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    • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll

      Clingy much

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      • thegypsysailor

        hardly

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  • anti-hero

    I've driven 6 hours for a good sandwich...

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    • Sandwich?

      To be sandwiched means to be in the middle, the middle of two similar things.

      You had a threesome with 2 girls didnt you.

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      • anti-hero

        Nope. It was a literal sandwich.

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        • Hugh*Janus

          Is it Krystal's? There's a guy who has a plaque on the wall at my local Krystal's because he drives there 5 hours regularly for the sammiches.

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          • anti-hero

            Nah I got a Krystal about 45 mins away.

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  • DumBellle

    My ex used to drive over 5hrs all of the time; Once he started joking about how beautiful our wedding would be - CUT OFF!

    Go for it.

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  • golden_showers

    the cost of the gas and the total time 10 hours driving.. it'd be cheaper to get a hooker.

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  • handsignals

    Road Trip!

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  • Aliceee93

    Not with the price of fuel these days!

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  • Coolgirl1012

    Yep you are desperate to have sex with her if she is your ex it's time for you to move on yeh I know you loved the sex with her but she's your ex so it's time for you to get another girl to have sex with.

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  • Shroot

    I do not go for sex.

    Sex goes to me.

    jk my gf lives in another country I haven't got laid in like 4 months

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  • Darkoil

    10 hour round trip for sex? Desperate much?

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  • nine11

    Y not? If. I get a gud tym wil go anywer

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  • green_boogers

    For a quick fuck, no. For a weekend of insatiable passion, yes.

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  • 213

    Ain't blaming you dude what you have for her is lust not love ,like you said your chemistry with her is great..

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